Although the importance of education has been widely recognized and practiced, the growth and restraint of children often depend on the integration and coordination between parents and teachers. When educating and restraining children, many parents and teachers are facing difficulties, which are caused by children's various behaviors and ideas and the differences between teachers and parents. In fact, teachers and parents should cooperate closely when dealing with children's behaviors and decisions, but in some cases, parents as teachers can't educate their children well. This phenomenon usually has the following reasons.

1. Feeling tired

Teachers are always at work, and sometimes they feel tired at night. In this case, they may show fatigue, impatience and emotional instability to their children. Together, these factors can easily lead to improper education and poor control of children's behaviors and ideas.

2. Education lacks professionalism

Although teachers know educational knowledge, they may lack professional skills and skills to get along with children. This may explain why a teacher can't educate his children well. In life, teachers need to face students of different ages and must use educational strategies suitable for students of different ages. Of course, it may take time for children to get used to it and find the best way of education.

3. General education

The liberal view of education has become a new trend in many educational circles. In this case, the roles of parents and teachers have become very different from those in the past. Extending to modern times, the liberal education model has made many teachers and parents go backwards. In this mode, the coercion against children's behavior is restricted and attracted by Optics Valley. In this case, parents who are teachers are more likely to relax their control, because they often think that they are "petty bourgeoisie" and choose a relaxed way to practice free education.

4. Work-family balance

In most cases, teachers have a heavy workload and have to raise their own children. In this case, they may not be able to allocate time and energy well to educate and manage their children. These factors will bring some extra pressure, especially if parents are in a state of stress and anxiety, they may not be able to evaluate whether their children's choices and behaviors are correct.

In educating children, both parents and teachers need to bear great responsibilities, and this responsibility requires transparent, open and special cooperation. Especially today, many factors (such as technological progress, the use of new technologies and new educational models) will make it almost necessary for us to keep up with the times and closely contact everyone's arrangements. Now it is a basis for individual wisdom to reflect the wisdom of the whole civilization. Through this cooperative orientation, a better education system can be established, and on this basis, wise men and leaders who are more likely to become leaders or change the world can be trained.