Before children (boys and girls) are 65,438+0.5 years old, they are not excessively spoiled, especially for boys, because they have shorter eye contact with adults. Adults should pay special attention to hug boys more, let their skin be touched and satisfied, and get enough sense of security.

2. Boys need their own space.

When the boy grew up to about 2 years old, he began the first step of independence. From then on, parents should consciously create appropriate independent space for him. Boys aged 2-5 will show their personality more and more. At this time, children get angry easily. Parents should not suppress his resistance too much, but should understand him more, otherwise it may hinder his inner self-development and destroy his life-long character.

3. Understand the special expressions of boys.

Because of the role of testosterone in the body, boys are more likely to get angry than girls and need to vent more. So, when they are dissatisfied with you or he is in a bad mood, he slams the door, throws things, makes a hullabaloo about and even knocks on the wall. In fact, this is a normal behavior of a little man when he grows up. You should tell him what is a better expression. He has the ability, responsibility and time to adjust himself. At the same time, give him a chance to vent, allow him to yell, and even designate a sofa or sandbag for him to beat.

4. Understand the boy's stubbornness

If you can't do something, you must try. This is also the role of testosterone. From infancy, boys don't accept setbacks as comfortably as girls, and they don't like to accept advice and help from others. Usually he knows he can't do it, but he has to keep trying. Boys also deal with emotions much slower than girls. At this time, mother should trust our little hunter's self-judgment ability and give him enough time to adjust his mentality. If you force him not to do something, or force him to accept your help, he will feel really frustrated.