Discipline children in principle.
Adults at home must learn to discipline their children in principle, rather than relying on emotions to influence them.
The tone of discussion
We taught him to avoid hurting his self-esteem and try to talk to him in a consultative tone. Let him think about whether this is right or wrong. Give him a chance to recoil and let him reflect on himself and calm down.
Praise the children.
If children do a good job in something, we should give affirmation and praise, so that children will be more enterprising and have a sense of honor and strive for greater progress.
Arrange the order of life
Cultivating children's good habits can be achieved by arranging their own life order. Guide children to arrange their lives, decorate their living environment and develop good living habits.
Set a good example
Every parent wants his children to have excellent qualities such as good thinking and good behavior. Therefore ... whether parents' words and deeds are correct has a far-reaching impact on children. Therefore, parents should set a good example in life.
Advantages and disadvantages of accepting children
Every child is an independent individual and has his own personality. There is no good or bad personality. Our parents should fully accept their children, accept their advantages and disadvantages, and don't ask them to be perfect. We adults can't be perfect, let alone children.
Control your emotions.
Therefore, we adults should first control our emotions, think about why children do this, and don't immediately criticize and scold children, tell them face to face, or squat down and tell them not to give them a sense of superiority. This is more conducive to communicating with children, understanding their real thoughts and giving them a positive expectation, which is better than negative scolding.