Habits determine the fate of children, and nothing is more important than habit formation. If parents don't pay attention to cultivate their children's good habits, they are undoubtedly ruining their children's bright future. Cultivating education is lifelong education. Intellectual education is a good habit of thinking, moral education is a small habit of behavior, and quality education is more reflected in people's small behaviors. A large number of facts have proved that habit is a tenacious force that can dominate a person's life. Everything about children begins with the cultivation of habits. Habit is not built in a day. Habit is a big problem and great wisdom.

Second, establish a friendly and trusting relationship and try to avoid conflicts with children.

Junior high school children are prone to impulsive emotions. In the communication with children, sometimes due to improper methods and words or partial hearing and belief, children have rebellious psychology, which leads to resistance and hinders communication. Therefore, educating children should use persuasion to let them express their inner feelings and thoughts. If there is a language conflict, parents must be calm and take appropriate measures to stop the quarrel immediately. It will be much better to enlighten your children when both sides calm down.

Third, respect the independence of children.

Respect children's independence, treat children as a complete and independent individual, and give them a certain "psychological space". Adolescent children will no longer obey their parents as they did when they were young. Parents should respect their children's correct opinions, discuss things with their children, gradually give them more independent rights, and of course put forward higher requirements for their children. But one thing to remember: parents have "absolute rights" in some things, equality is only relative, and children should be aware of inviolable principles and insurmountable boundaries.

Fourth, learn to let go in learning.

Nowadays, many parents have the ability to take practical actions to help their children with their homework. After a long time, children will directly ask their parents for help when they encounter a slightly more difficult problem. This is not good. Children should learn to think independently and finish their homework independently. Parents should supervise slowly and don't persuade. It is a good opportunity to help children to relax before the start of the new junior high school, adapt to junior high school life in the best state, study junior high school books in advance, not be caught off guard in the face of the upcoming subjects, and cultivate the interest of various subjects at the same time.

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