However, in the second-child family, the relationship between Dabao and Bauer is actually very delicate, and they are sometimes compared by their parents.
Some time ago, when I was chatting with my friends, I talked about the baby. The best friend said: Have you found that in most families with two children, the second child seems to be better than the oldest child?
My child is obviously more than one year older than his brother, but now he does everything according to his brother. I don't know what to do with them.
After hearing what she said, all the friends around her laughed, but when I thought about it later, I found that it was true. It seems that in a second-child family, it is normal for the second child to be a little better.
You don't know that my Dabao and Bauer are at home, which really makes people feel helpless. I remember one time I went home and found my eldest son crying, and my sister stood by without saying anything.
Finally, I asked what happened, only to find that Dabao was angry and cried by her sister. Tell me, how did this happen?
Indeed, in many families, if you look closely, you will find that the second child's intelligence is unparalleled by the boss, so have you ever wondered why?
In fact, there is still a certain scientific basis. After all, "the dragon gives birth to nine children, and nine children are different." Under the education of parents, children will also have obvious differences.
0 1, your second child is smarter than the boss. These reasons cannot be ignored. Of course, when thinking about this reason, some people may think that there are certain differences in the development of children during the marriage process. We can't think this explanation is scientific.
After all, most of Dabao was born in the best reproductive stage, and his state may be better than Bauer's. In general, the reasons for the obvious differences still depend on their own environment and educational methods.
1) The educational methods are somewhat different.
Facing Dabao: Are you coming? Mother will dress you, or it will be too cold, and you will catch a cold when you go out. Will you listen?
Facing Bauer: How many times have you said that? You still won't listen, will you? It's cold to go out in the future. What if you catch a cold? I don't care about you. I'll count to three' 321'and get dressed right away.
The above are the same stage education for Dabao and Bauer respectively. We can analyze that most parents are extremely careful when they take care of their treasure.
However, in the face of Bauer, it is possible to show obvious dissatisfaction and irritability. Because in the long-term education process, mom and dad are troubled by trivial matters of life, which leads to obvious differences in education methods.
Under such circumstances, children will naturally observe words and deeds. Especially for Bauer, they should not only avoid Dabao's rivalry with themselves, but also try to get on well with their parents, so that their brains will naturally become active. Thinking about problems, more shows a more savvy state.
2) There are huge differences in educational models.
In addition to the education methods we mentioned above, in fact, most parents will choose different education methods when educating Bauer and Dabao.