1, it doesn't matter if you eat less, don't chase him, forget it if you don't eat, a bowl is the basic amount. Do not ask to eat too much, seven points full, enough for the body to consume energy. In this way, there are many gullies in the cerebral cortex, which is beneficial to memory and so on.

2, try to train children to eat less meat, eat more fruits and vegetables (can adhere to the best), do not let the body accumulate fat, affecting the brain. Be sure to take the snacks away and replace them with fruits. You must eat apples and bananas every day, both of which are related to intelligence and have a calming effect.

Never force children to eat. Children have several growth and development periods, especially adolescence, and their appetite will naturally increase. If you open your appetite early, his appetite will end when he develops, and he can't be allowed to eat less when he reaches puberty.

About early education:

1, from the time the child can talk, I will ask his advice for everything. Do something wrong (including breaking things), let him tell what happened before and after, and why, I won't scold him or hit him; After speaking, point out the problems and correction methods, and say that you should pay attention in the future.

2, inattention, is it not good to sleep at night? Are you too full? Don't you understand this course? Find out the reason, find out the solution to the problem according to the reason, and don't scold the child blindly.

3, to give him time to play, doing it itself is equal to thinking. Parents and children make a timetable from class to sleep, and everything follows the timetable.

4, about the education of children need to pay attention to:

First, conduct early education, pay attention to developing thinking intelligence, and don't force him to learn anything.

Second, be kind to all life and teach him to learn to put himself in the other's shoes. It is no longer pleasant not to cause trouble to others.

Third, teach him to follow the example of water, be soft when things happen, and take a detour when things happen.

5. Cultivate the child's mind: I told him that others have no obligation to be good to you. The human heart is uneven, just as the earth has mountains, valleys and plains. You should be grateful to others for being kind to you; It's not good for you. That's his behavior. It's normal. Everything is not absolutely fair. The bigger your mind, the more energy you can get, and the more complacent you are if you don't ask for it. Mind and compassion are very important and play a decisive role in children's future life and situation differences.

About learning:

1, do your homework after school: set a time and don't let him do it then. He said that if he couldn't finish his homework, he would be punished by the teacher tomorrow, but I told him when to do something and not to misappropriate it. The next morning, he got up early to do it, but I didn't allow him to go to school crying. After that, until I graduate from high school, the first priority is to finish my homework first.

2. The teacher assigns homework for parents to check the signature: let the children check it themselves, and I will sign it after the inspection. When signing, ask: Are you correct after checking? If he is sure it is correct, you can sign it. Don't point out the wrong question when you read it clearly, so that there will be a red cross in his exercise book tomorrow. Faced with this situation, you just need to say why you didn't check it yesterday. Don't be too strict Don't let your child worry that when you hit him, everything will be convinced by reason, so he will be much more serious next time.

In the first grade, parents should have a heart-to-heart talk with their children and let them know that learning is the stage to lay the foundation for their own lives. Learning is not for parents, it has nothing to do with parents. Adults have the responsibility of adults; Let the child check himself, that is, find a way to let him manage himself and let him learn to be responsible for his own life. If the child comes home the next day after the parents sign and says, look, there is still a wrong question that has not been found out, the parents will be speechless.

About dictation: My solution is to let him dictate. I said you can think of all the new words you have learned and write them down by heart. That doesn't prove that you are great! He brought the Chinese book and put it in front of me. I said take it. My mother believes you won't read it.

4. The teacher complained about punishing homework (about criticism): My son was also punished in the first grade of primary school. I picked him up from school, waited for him to finish his punished homework, and listened to the teacher scold his son for not being serious in class, how he had something to do with his classmates and so on. Ask about the situation carefully after returning home. Don't criticize your classmate if he is wrong. It's their own problem, and they all whispered to him how to pay attention to correcting it. It is very important that parents should use reason to alleviate the negative emotions they may have towards their teachers. Parents and teachers are the main ones who hurt children's self-confidence. If the child is scolded at school, the mother should understand things clearly that night, resolve the child's emotions and repair the child's self-confidence. Self-confidence is very important in one's life.

About scores:

You can't express too many opinions during the exam. Learning is your own business. I just asked him to analyze the reasons for the wrong questions on the paper, whether it was ignorance or carelessness, and just correct them himself. I won't ask him where this score ranks in the class.

Math will always write wrong simple questions, and adults and children will say regretfully, "What a pity! If you are serious about math, you will get full marks. " I've been in this situation. Seeing the 99-point paper, I thought about how to keep him from being careless. Probably in the third grade, the opportunity came in the pain of others. A unit repaired a house, and the house collapsed halfway through the repair. I took him to the opportunity education website. In mechanics and other methods, because of a little error in calculation, the house supported by footings will be different, and the points with less calculation will sink; As far as building materials are concerned, there is less cement, smaller steel bars and lower quality bricks. The whole house is a dangerous building. In order to let him have a deep understanding, I said that if someone dies because of your careless calculation (six people died in the accident), how can people pay for their own lives? How to compensate for tens of millions of economic losses? Judging from the perfect score of the college entrance examination, this opportunity education is successful.

About dressing and getting sick

1, don't pay attention to clothes, don't bother, just wear as much as your mother, and less is better than more. Children exercise a lot, and it is easier to catch a cold when the wind blows, and it is more difficult to get better. The child has a runny nose, so put on some clothes. Judge hot and cold, touch the child's back neck;

2. Pay attention to strengthening cold tolerance training.

3, don't give it to children often, and take small medicine at every turn.

4. In the cold season, give your child some vc from time to time, or eat some fruit rich in vc every day. When the cold symptoms are mild, if it is just a runny nose, you don't need to take medicine at first, you can wash it more; Most colds are viral, and viruses have no specific drugs. /kloc-just take the medicine for 0/4 days, and don't take the medicine for 2 weeks. Many times it is the psychological comfort of adults themselves. If you go to the hospital with a cold and fever, try to ask for a blood test. Is it possible for a person not to get sick? Impossible; Therefore, don't panic when your child has a cold or a minor illness. Dialectically speaking, a cold is equivalent to an injection. There is no need to pay too much attention to this macro-inevitable thing.

About play and experience

1, try to ensure that one parent can play with the child for a certain time every day.

2. The game of life, the game of life; Try to make children laugh, and laugh several times a day.

3, playing is not afraid of dirty, let children play, climb, and not break blood; Don't interfere with children's behavior too much without affecting their own safety and the interests of others; Not all dangerous things are forbidden to children; Within the controllable range, teach children where the danger is and how to avoid it.

4. Give children as many opportunities as possible to experience themselves, and don't directly tell the results; Let him grope, bump and fail;

About love and responsibility

1, teach children to wait;

2. Teach children to be responsible for their actions;

3, teach children to pay and return is two-way, learn to be grateful.

4. Try to sleep with your child while sleeping.

About competition

1, the most important sentence, I only need a child with a score of 70, so I only need to be a mother with a score of 70; Don't be hard on yourself, just get by.

2, teach children to face failure, I can not accept, but I can't afford to lose, I can choose to give up, or I can choose to attack again, but I can't cry in front of my opponent.

About fighting

1. If a child attacks, learn to judge the situation, sue once first, and then the basic principle is, if you can beat it, you will fight, but if you can't, you will flee; In kindergarten, you can shout loudly to attract others' attention.

2, don't hit people first, no matter who starts first, can't be the first to cry.

About financial management

1, so that children have the right to decide their own affairs;

2. It is planned to introduce a weekly allowance mechanism for children after they are 3 years old-let them learn to do what they want to do most with limited money, learn to open up sources, and learn to cut costs.