Hello, friends. As a mother, you should know how to raise children. The education of boys and girls is different. When the boy grows up, he will go out and conquer the world. Therefore, as a mother, he should put away his immature love for his son, don't spoil and spoil the boy, cultivate the child's ability and skill to break through the world from an early age, and let him do something within his power as soon as possible to cultivate his sense of responsibility. A man's ability is forced out, not love, so a mother.

First, a mother should follow the principle of "raising a poor child and raising a rich daughter", never give him more money at home, never meet a boy's material needs, cultivate his sense of crisis, never let him see the unbearable appearance when you are poor at home, and never let him see your erect backbone.

Second, cultivate children's hands-on training from an early age, do their own things, eat and dress themselves, then wash their own clothes and help their mothers share housework. Let him watch more TV and the animal world, and cultivate his competitive consciousness of "survival of the fittest". Cultivate children's three desires as soon as possible: aggression, possessiveness and imperial desire.

Third, you can promise your boy to make more friends and play with his children, but you should also tell him that you must be a big brother when you go out to play, and let others listen to you, not a soldier. Otherwise, if your mother finds out, she will never let you go out to play again, and you can't be beaten by others when you go out. If you are bullied, you will be beaten when you come back. Cultivate the consciousness of "people don't attack me, I don't attack".

Fourth, boys should not be prevented from making mistakes, unless it is a mistake of principle. If they make mistakes, they should be brave enough to bear the consequences, reflect on themselves and take responsibility, so that they can grow up to be indomitable men.

Mom and friends must remember these points and cultivate an excellent son.