First, the cultivation of competitive consciousness.
Competition is always accompanied by victory or defeat, and the result is cruel. Children must be allowed to face up to the competition, so that the winners are not arrogant and impetuous, and the losers are not discouraged.
First, we should cultivate children's correct self-awareness. Self-awareness is closely related to competition awareness, and a clear self-awareness can only be revealed by comparing with others. It is necessary to guide children to develop their own personality psychology, which is different from others and shows their independent personality. At different ages, careful parents will find that their children are deliberately shaping themselves and pay attention to how their words and deeds will affect their image in the eyes of others. This is the further formation of competitive consciousness. It is necessary to grasp the different periods of children's self-awareness and give timely support and correct guidance.
Second, we must correct our children's competitive mentality. It is a wonderful thing for children to understand that competition is an opportunity to show their strength. We should treat transcendence and being surpassed with a calm mind and should not be full of jealousy and resentment. One of the significance of participating in the competition is to learn to accept defeat gracefully and sincerely bless your opponent. It is necessary to tell children that winning the competition is something to be proud of, but the spirit of unity and cooperation with peers is also an indispensable quality in modern life. Parents use their own actions to demonstrate, and children will naturally feel the same.
Third, encourage children to believe in themselves. Encourage children to express their inner feelings bravely, judge right and wrong with their own values, and believe that they have the ability to achieve their own goals, rather than just reflecting their self-worth through competition. Let children know that they can be winners or indomitable losers if they try their best, instead of paying too much attention to the game itself, especially for some children who try their best but still fail, encourage their fighting spirit. It is necessary to guide students to make a self-summary, understand why they can win and why they will lose, and learn from them in order to make greater progress.
Fourth, children should often participate in various competitions. It is necessary to create a lively and healthy competition atmosphere, so that students can learn from each other and develop interactively in the process of participating in the competition. In order to attract students' attention, there are various forms of competitions. Through examinations, speeches, singing and painting, students can gradually establish the consciousness of "striving to be advanced and glorious" in an open, fair and just competitive environment, so as to make positive progress and catch up. Let children participate in more competitions and let them understand that fair competition is not only the need of life and survival, but also a social morality. We should establish a reasonable competition mechanism. In order to enable all students to participate in the competition and feel the competitive atmosphere, the school should establish a competition system in class construction, such as the competition system for class cadres, the evaluation methods for all kinds of outstanding students, the discipline competition system and the health competition system. Form a competitive public opinion orientation, let students participate in activities consciously or unconsciously, with the system as the guarantee and the system as the promotion, so that they can gradually adapt to the competition and dare to compete.
Second, the cultivation of cooperative consciousness.
In modern society, competition and cooperation are getting closer and closer, and competition must not forget cooperation. It is necessary to guide children to correctly treat competition and cooperation in life, learn to cooperate in competition and learn to compete in cooperation. Nowadays, students, mostly only children, are used to "I"
Self-centered and self-centered, they often look at other people's shortcomings and their own advantages with a magnifying glass, which is one of the main obstacles to their social progress and success. Strengthen the cultivation of cooperative consciousness.
First, we should cultivate children's team spirit. Team spirit is the sublimation of cooperation, and one person's strength is insignificant. Only when he is integrated into the collective can the individual's potential creation be developed. As Marx said: "Only in the collective can individuals acquire the means to develop their all-round talents." Today's students will join a large or small team and hold any position in the future. Some students may also team up and lead the team in person. Both team members and team leaders need team spirit. The essence of this team spirit is the expression of collectivism. It requires everyone to discuss something in the collective, and the individual should obey the collective and the minority should obey the majority. Parents and teachers should pay attention to education and guidance in this respect in peacetime, so that children can understand why "three monks have no water to drink" and why "three heads are better than one", so that children have a sense of team.
Second, let children learn to communicate. Communication is a bridge and the beginning of cooperation. Through communication, students can listen to different opinions, make comparative discussions and solve problems.