Parents should start from themselves, from the child's point of view, think for the child, and treat the child as an independent person, not an accessory of parents. This concept must be deeply rooted in the hearts of the people. If parents always think that children should be obedient, then parents are actually exploiting their independence. In the long run, children can't grow into an independent person. When the problem accumulates to a certain extent, it is not only the child's disobedience, but also the child's physical and mental health will be affected.
No child is born without love for his parents, and no child is born with a desire to go against his parents. If children turn a deaf ear to what their parents say, or turn a deaf ear, it must be caused by external factors over time. Think about it, parents are the first people that children come into contact with after coming into this world, and they are also the closest and most willing to rely on. From the analysis of the emotional changes of animals, it is impossible for any child to be attached to his parents at birth, and the rebellious psychology of children after they grow up is more likely to be caused by the day after tomorrow.
Change your educational concept If parents always nag or even suppress and control their children during their growth, they will constantly stimulate their rebellious psychology at this time. When children's rebellious psychology develops to a certain extent, the focus is no longer on what parents said to them, but what parents said seems to be a mistake. No matter what their parents say to them, even if it is reasonable, they will not listen, but instinctively resist or silently resist. This is actually a confrontation between children and parents for their long-term control.
Be gentle when communicating. Many parents go with resentment every time they communicate with their children. For example, what did the child do wrong, such as being too rebellious this time. When parents always communicate with their children, they will inevitably show that impatience. Or feel that you are wrong, you may criticize and scold your child every time. This must not happen, because once this happens, children will not be willing to open their hearts and communicate with you. Instead, he will resist communicating with you.