1 1 children between the ages of 18 have reached puberty and rebellious period. Some problems that should be paid attention to when getting along with the rebellious son of youth;
One: be tolerant of children and forgive their mistakes;
Second, understand children, be good parents and learn to listen;
Third, pay attention to cultivating children's non-intellectual factors;
The content of non-intelligence factors, because non-intelligence factors refer to personality psychology that plays a role in starting, guiding, maintaining and strengthening learning activities, psychologists regard those personality psychology as the main content of non-intelligence factors. Most psychologists believe that the main contents of non-intelligence factors are:
1. hobbies;
2. Happy mood and enthusiasm for the cause;
3. Endurance and willpower to setbacks;
4. Lively personality and broad mind;
5. Confidence and ambition;
6. lofty ideals and goals;
7. High ambition;
8. Anxiety.
Fourth; Don't compete with adolescent children, be the helmsman in the voyage of children's growth, let go but not indulge, let children discover themselves, and discover themselves;
Five: help children develop good habits;
Intransitive verbs resolutely put an end to exposing children's short-lived behavior, and don't indulge yourself in dealing with children's ignorant mistakes with wrong behaviors.
Guide children to make their own action plans, and parents don't do it for them.
Guide children to think about their activities, and parents should not tell them what to do.
Parents are in no hurry to guide their children to solve their own problems.
Guide children to face up to the consequences of their actions, and parents do not complain.
Guide children to reflect on their own shortcomings, and parents should not nag and exaggerate.
Parents don't worry about guiding their children to meet future challenges.
For adolescent children, the most taboo things in family education are: negative evaluation, heartless reprimand, unwarranted suspicion, unreasonable demands, empty preaching and selfish doting. Letting go is not indulgence, but active restraint, not treating middle school students as children and giving them opportunities to exercise.
We should pay more attention to the education of adolescent children and adopt scientific methods to effectively solve the problems they encounter during their growth.
I tried to make my son realize his mistake by not letting him eat, but it didn't work. In order to win his heart, no matter what happens, I will ensure that my son eats well and is full.
I wish you and your family good luck, health and happiness (* _ *), and wish your children a happy growth (* _ *).
Keep asking: but everything you say goes in one ear and out the other, and she doesn't even follow a hundred. Always "go your own way". Only to find that he is becoming more and more reticent and does not like to talk. To make disobedient children "obedient", parents should carefully analyze the reasons for their disobedience and take corresponding measures. Knowing the scientific methods of disciplining children and skillfully using them will make them "obedient".
Disobedience is a unique psychological phenomenon of children and an inevitable physiological phenomenon. Parents need not worry about it. As long as parents find the root of their children's disobedience and guide them correctly with scientific tutoring art, they can turn their children's disobedience into a driving force for learning and progress and promote their healthy growth.
How to effectively educate disobedient children
First, the spring breeze turns to rain: correcting children's rebellious and rebellious psychology
For rebellious children, parents should always keep in touch with them and urge them to pour out their thoughts and feelings. Then, through persuasion, suit the remedy to the case, guide the children to the right path of life.
1. Resolving the rebellion in children's hearts is nothing more than a temporary solution.
2. Active guidance: let children vent their emotions.
3. Understanding and caring: reducing children's psychological burden
4. Facing the "generation gap" conflict, solve it in the right way.
5. Treat children as equals and let them move from confrontation to happy cooperation.
6. Respect children's privacy and don't interfere with children's legal rights.
7. Get rid of the high-pressure policy and listen to the children's voices.
8. Teach children to treat and accept teachers' criticism correctly.
9. Help children eliminate teachers' misunderstanding of themselves.
10. Eliminate children's resistance to teachers in time.
1 1. Guide children not to taste the bitter fruit of puppy love.
12. Don't tolerate children's disrespect for their elders.
Second, temper justice with mercy: change the child's bad personality.
For wayward children, on the one hand, parents should strictly control his unreasonable waywardness and nonsense, on the other hand, they should adopt the strategy of tolerance and guidance for his reasonable self-assertion, which is the educational method of combining leniency with severity.
1. Parents indulge their children, which will lead to their willfulness.
2. Don't accommodate your child's unreasonable demands.
3. Cultivate children's self-control and correct their unreasonable troubles.
Don't let the child cry to achieve his goal.
Don't let children neglect discipline.
6. What if children don't accept criticism from their parents?
7. Correct the child's bad habit of losing his temper
8. Change children's unreasonable attitude.
9. Correct children's bad habit of asking for things.
10. Resolutely correct children's self-centered psychology
1 1. Help children to know themselves correctly and overcome their conceit.
12. Don't make your child arrogant: "I'm just better than others!"
13. Don't let children be too narrow-minded: "I can do it, others can't!"
14. Correct the shortcomings that children do wrong and refuse to admit.
Third, relax moderately: methods and skills to overcome children's playfulness
If parents want to change their children's playfulness, they must first identify the crux of their children's playfulness, and then adopt correct educational methods. Under the dual role of guidance and compulsion, relaxation and moderation have changed children's bad habit of being playful and put them on the right track.
1. Guide children to play sometimes, with restraint and restraint.
2. Restrain naughty children with proper rules.
3. Follow the trend: develop the intelligent potential of "naughty bag"
4. Cleverly stipulate the study time of naughty children
5. Correct the children's failure to finish their homework on time.
6. Don't just focus on yourself and leave the children to the TV.
7. Don't indulge your children to have fun during the holidays.
8. Exercise the patience of naughty children with "three-minute training".
9. Never let children get lost in video games.
10. Save the children who are addicted to the Internet
1 1. Don't forbid children to play normally.
I wish you and your family good luck, health and happiness (* _ *), and wish your children a happy growth (* _ *).