We should give junior high school more autonomy. Teachers should give more guidance, let them study, manage and live independently, and control the time of study, rest and entertainment. On the one hand, it helps students to complete various tasks in a relaxed and happy psychological state, and more importantly, it helps students to develop healthy and good psychological quality and the character of independent learning, self-management and self-improvement. Kiss his teacher again and trust his way. Teachers' parents should strive to make friends with junior high school students, treat them as equals, discuss learning problems together, have fun together, and face all kinds of problems together, so as to gain the trust of students, let students open their hearts and communicate with teachers smoothly without forming communication obstacles.