Biological children are plants cultivated from seeds. Sow the seed and watch it sprout, the leaves will gradually increase and the roots will become stronger and stronger. Sprinkle water on it and change pots, expecting it to grow up and blossom quickly every day.
The children who came to see me later were potted plants. Some hurt their roots in the process of growing up, and some are affected by bad environment. You can't be impatient to raise such plants. Only by pouring the root-fixing water thoroughly, let its roots closely combine with the soil attached for a long time in the future, and then take care of it, can it survive healthily.
There are thousands of plants, and the cultivation methods of different plants are different.
Children are unique, and the educational methods suitable for them are also different.
Some children are like sunflowers. Small seeds, scattered casually, are too lazy to take care of them, and it won't take long for clusters of lovely flowers to grow. This kind of flower not only has a long flowering period, but also has a regular schedule: it blooms when the sun comes out and goes home when the sun goes down.
Some children are like a bowl of lotus flowers. The green shoots arched from the hard shell gradually became longer, and finally one day the second and third green seedlings appeared. At this time, if it is transplanted into a shallow basin, it will not take long for its living space to meet its growth needs. In the end, it may rot the roots, or it may only grow leaves without flowering. If you put it in a pot deep enough and big enough, give it a wide space. Eventually, it will become a beautiful flower with a quiet atmosphere.
Some children are like sesame oil. When cultivating, the requirements for soil are not high, as long as the water permeability is strong. The more you manage this factory, the worse it becomes. Regular watering will rot the roots, and more fertilization will kill you. As a defender, laziness will make it healthier.
Compared with other plants outside the garden, the plants we cultivate are not the best, but they are unique because they are cultivated by themselves bit by bit. So are the children. I love him not only because I gave birth to him, but also because I have devoted too much effort to him. Even so, we should clearly realize that every child has his unique advantages. Instead of blindly following the teachings of others, it is better to calm down and be a little gardener on the road of children's growth. Water when it's time to water, trim when it's time to trim, and leave the rest to time.