Speaking of the negative teaching materials from "prodigy" to education, the first thing that comes to mind is Wei Yongkang, a "prodigy" in Huarong County, Hunan Province. 13 years old, admitted to Xiangtan University, then the youngest college student in Hunan Province. After that, he became high flyers of Chinese Academy of Sciences at the age of 17 with excellent results.

But soon after he entered school, he broke away from his mother's dominant lifestyle because of his low self-care ability, and even simple dressing became a problem. In addition, the knowledge structure did not conform to the model of the Chinese Academy of Sciences, and later he was dissuaded by the Chinese Academy of Sciences.

Coincidentally, a "child prodigy" also appeared in Panjin City, Liaoning Province. That's Zhang Xinyang who was admitted to Tianjin Engineering Teachers College at the age of 10. He is also the youngest college student in China. It only took him four years to go from elementary school to senior three. Then he was admitted to the graduate school of Beijing University of Technology at the age of 13.

However, when I was a graduate student, the rebellious period of Zhang Xinyang's youth had just arrived. The contradiction with parents and the age gap with classmates make it difficult for Zhang Xinyang to keep up with the academic requirements.

Later, at the age of 65,438+06, Zhang Xinyang was admitted as a doctoral student majoring in mathematics at Beihang University. With the aggravation of study, the age gap between him and his classmates is getting bigger and bigger, and he is always sought after. At the same time, he is also arrogant, fragile and sensitive, and then he made many comments with low emotional intelligence, which was criticized by many netizens, such as "people who have no money must have no quality" and "white-collar workers are worthless to the development of Beijing". "High IQ and low EQ" has become the evaluation of Zhang Xinyang by many people.

In addition, Wang Sihan, who was admitted to Shenyang University of Technology at the age of 14, had similar problems with Zhang Xinyang after entering the university. I don't get along well with my classmates, and my grades often fail. Finally, I was dismissed by the school because my grades did not meet the graduation requirements.

High IQ, advanced learning and short campus life, with the aggravation of their studies, they can't adapt to the environment with a big age gap and lack the ability to take care of themselves, which eventually becomes a problem they have to face. These "geniuses" and "prodigies" may not stand the test of profound knowledge, let alone ordinary children.

0 1, study ahead of time, and parents leave their children in this state.

Advanced learning, also known as advanced education, refers to letting children receive knowledge that is not suitable for their age and education stage. The most common thing is that early education classes begin to accept the educational content of kindergartens, and when they arrive at kindergartens, they begin to accept the educational content of primary schools.

Perhaps this advanced learning mode will temporarily make children smarter than their peers and master more knowledge, but education experts generally believe that this education mode can easily have a negative impact on children's physical and mental health and long-term learning. China's Ministry of Education has long issued a rectification notice, which explicitly prohibits early education centers and kindergartens from teaching children the contents within the scope of primary school curriculum, including Chinese Pinyin, literacy and English.

Parents should be aware of the negative effects of studying in advance on their children.

Yin Jianli, a famous education expert, said: "The most important thing for children before the age of 6 is to cultivate good learning attitudes, habits and abilities."

First, let children lose their curiosity and imagination.

Scholars from Harvard University did an experiment, inviting 20 children, all 3 years old, who have already attended kindergarten 10 and those who haven't attended kindergarten 10, to draw together according to keywords such as "sun", "house" and "grass".

Surprisingly, the pictures drawn by children who have attended kindergarten are very similar, while those drawn by children who have not attended kindergarten are quite different. Later, scholars believed that the earlier children came into contact with advanced education, their imagination would be limited.

Second: Let children lose interest.

We are only interested in the unknown and knowledge. And if children have learned in advance, such as what they have learned in kindergarten, and then review it in primary school, they will lose interest in what they already know.

Einstein once said, "Interest is the best teacher." If children lose interest in the knowledge taught by their teachers and their grades drop, it is inevitable that they will have no motivation to learn.

03. It is the key to cultivate children with these abilities.

In the book A Good Mother Is Better than a Good Teacher written by Yin Jianli after years of research, it is mentioned: "0 to 6 years old is the golden age for children to develop good habits, three views and personality."

This view of hers coincides with that of Li Meijin, a famous psychology professor. She agrees that it is more important to cultivate children's good habits, correct outlook on life, self-care ability and self-reliance ability than to send children to early education centers or kindergartens that instill a lot of knowledge!

In other words, first of all, we should pay attention to cultivating children to develop good habits such as diet, work and rest, and life. To ensure that they can have regular and healthy living habits and cultivate their self-discipline and self-care ability. All these require parents to cultivate from the details of life, just as Chen Heqin, a pre-school education expert, summed up that the best education for children should be carried out in life and cultivate good living habits.

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Learning in advance, if you don't have a good grasp of the scale, it will easily become "pulling out the seedlings to encourage" and will only hurt children deeply in the end. This is also the main reason why the Ministry of Education has repeatedly urged early education institutions or kindergartens to implement advanced learning. Parents should never hurt their children unwittingly because of utilitarian heart or wrong educational concept!