The groom should properly restrain his eagerness for success and avoid rudeness. Before touching the sexual organs, we should be gentle and considerate, try our best to caress the bride, relieve her tension and doubts, and thus arouse her sexual impulse. After the bride's feelings and sexual impulses reach a certain level, the vulva is wet before sexual intercourse. During sexual intercourse, the groom should control his impulses and move slowly and gently. If he fails once, he can try several times more.

The bride should overcome the tension and fear, cooperate with the groom happily, and relax the vaginal muscles, which is conducive to the smooth progress of sexual intercourse. If the hymen is broken and painful, the bride can bend her legs upward, hold them with her hands, and hold her breath downward, which can relieve the pain.

Some women have a narrow front vagina, so they can apply some lubricant to make the penis easy to enter or the man will slowly expand the vagina with his fingers before sexual intercourse. Some young couples are very tired because of the wedding. At this time, they may not have sex for the first time. They can rest after expressing their love and postpone their first sex until the next night.