Many parents like to educate their children with impact education, which will cause harm: some parents usually use impact education because they are afraid of their children's pride, especially when their children are successful. They think it is important to let their children know humility, so they habitually choose severe impact teaching. Remember, children's hearts are actually very sensitive. If parents always use this method, it will make children doubt themselves for a while. Therefore, it is very important to encourage and educate children. If it can help improve children's self-confidence, it can also help children and parents to establish a good parent-child relationship.

Many parents always convey their feelings when educating their children. In fact, parents may just care about their children, or hope that their children have an ability to resist setbacks, but sometimes what they say can only hurt their children, because in most cases, parents express it through narration or severe attacks. Such words are heard by children, and they can't feel the care and care of their parents, but they can only feel the accusations and blows of their parents.

The relationship between parents and children is becoming more and more rigid. If parents just blame their children blindly, the relationship between them will become very stiff, and every child will have some rebellious psychology. If parents always severely crack down on children, children will gradually move away from their parents, leading to cracks in parent-child communication and growing estrangement. When children grow up, they will never miss home again and don't like going home.

Without a sense of responsibility, parents are the most trusted and caring people for their children. If parents only severely attack and deny their children, they will distort their psychology for a long time and make them feel that what they do is useless, that they are stupid and can't do anything well. After a long time, children will gradually lack the sense of independence, and when they encounter difficulties, they just want to escape or push the responsibility out, without a sense of responsibility.