Parents in the world are all the same, no matter what the family situation is, the same situation may occur in many cases, that is, "crying poor" to children! Did your parents say anything like that? Do you have any friends around you? As a parent, have you ever had a similar "crying poor" education?

Whether to "cry for poverty" education In fact, it is not bad to use appropriate "cry for poverty" to refuse children's willful purchase, but we must remember to explain to children the reasons other than "can't afford it", such as: this toy has been almost at home for a long time, this toy is not suitable for your age, it is useless, and so on, so that children can slowly learn how to treat their favorite things rationally, and they don't have to get everything! To make the right choice, why choose, rather than a poor word to break all the children's budding ideas. To put it bluntly, it is necessary to give them correct and timely guidance. Don't let poverty limit children's imagination and the heart to fly their dreams! So as to guide children to establish correct three views-world outlook, values and outlook on life.

I don't think parents always speak ill of their children, but pay attention to their ways and means. If they use the wrong methods and means, they will plant a poor seed in their hearts. And if the method is used properly, it can motivate them to study hard and try to change the fate of poor families. This can not only change the fate of poor families, but also enable children to stimulate their abilities and give full play to their abilities. With the joint efforts of you and your children, your family will live a better and happier life. If there is anything wrong, please give me some advice. If you think it makes sense, please give me a compliment.

No, if you are really poor, as a matter of fact, you don't need to emphasize him in front of your children. If you want to motivate him, you can be clear about what parents can provide for him and what parents can't. The whole family works together, parents work hard, and children study hard to improve their quality of life together.

Poverty is not caused by children. In short, it shows the ability of parents. It is not wrong for people to have various abilities, but it is too much to put pressure on children repeatedly with their own "incompetence". Children may not have a deep concept of poverty and wealth, but such a long time may make children feel inferior, think that we are poor, and even feel inferior.

This kind of "crying for poverty" behavior of parents is also easy to affect children. When children grow up, they will shirk their mistakes to others.