Because of learning to drive, the home visit of our class was postponed to July 22nd because of me. Early in the morning, before 8 o'clock, Wan Yu, the head teacher, drove the car downstairs. As I rushed downstairs, my first home visit began. Just like traveling, we also made a map of home visits, including who to visit first, how long each family will stay, what to discuss when meeting the parents' meeting and so on.
However, the plan cannot keep up with the changes. The first family visitor, Yang Shuhan's family, turned us away. The reason is that we agreed to arrive at 8 o'clock. As a result, her mother decided to punch in at work first and then come back to receive us. More unexpectedly, Yang Shuhan went to an English tutoring class. Before her mother finished, I looked at Wan Yu in unison. Well, it seems that this parent still doesn't quite understand the significance of home visits!
? Tea, fruit, melon seeds and thoughtful manners are all on the table, but I don't want such a precious home visit to pass in laughter and indifference, so I directly throw out a question: Yang Shuhan is very talented in learning, but how did this lazy habit come from? In this regard, her mother was first stunned, and then showed habitual dissatisfaction and helplessness. After repeated communication, the onion was peeled off layer by layer. It turns out that Yang Shuhan has a brother who is more than ten years older than her. Now I'm a junior, and I'm about to take the postgraduate entrance examination. From the tone of her mother's voice alone, I also heard that my family's hopes were pinned on this brother. As the youngest son and a girl, Yang Shuhan is carefree in her natural life and study. She didn't say that she would muddle along. At least there won't be a scene where she won't be beaten if she doesn't get 90 in the Chinese exam. Immediately, her mother also made it clear that it was unwise for Wan Yu and I to point out her point of view at that time. Relaxation is harmful, and strictness is love. Just because she is a girl and the youngest, we can't relax our demands on her. This is irresponsible for her future. Then, list some examples of top students in the class. In many families, the successful cultivation of the eldest brother gives parents a sense of accomplishment, thus relaxing the requirements for a second child. It seems that there are many educational problems in the second-child family!
? Unconsciously, an hour passed, far exceeding our expected time. Wan Yu and I arrived at our second home, Song Chengcheng's. Song Chengcheng is a student with excellent grades and good habits. Of course, this kind of Excellence is indispensable to his parents' blessing. I personally admire her mother. She is a good parent who can help children learn. She can not only find the missing parts, but also make up for them. My appreciation is caused by a small matter. This semester, I am teaching Chinese and thinking. Once, her mother sent me a WeChat asking me to review my thinking and wanted to buy a set of final papers to do. Please recommend it. I was a little shocked. 18 passed the sixth grade exam. In the face of the overwhelming entrance examination, no one in the class asked me to recommend papers. Because it's the first time I've encountered this situation in the final exam of grade three, I feel a little fussy. Her mother added: "The last mid-term exam was because of poor science, so I didn't get into the top ten of my grade." Hearing this sentence, I immediately felt ashamed. As a teacher, whether she (he) is in the top ten of the grade may be just an irrelevant question, but it is a great event for students. It's not easy for her mother to find the right medicine and help her children find immediate improvement methods!
? As expected, this home visit was as smooth as grading a perfect score paper. The children did well, even working harder than in school. They have to study culture and are busy with piano and dance exams. Parents also supervised well, and the teacher had nothing to worry about, so he smiled and said goodbye.