The first problem that parents are confused about is that they don't know when sex education will start. Some people think it will start from adolescence, while others think it will start from adulthood. These views are all wrong. If children are not educated about sex in time, they will encounter a lot of confusion.
1)0-3 years old 0-3 years old is the first golden age of sex education, and children around 2 years old have gender awareness.
2) Children aged 4-6 have increased their knowledge and curiosity, and the problems they think of are more complicated.
3)7- 10 children have entered primary school, and their literacy has increased. If they see some sensitive topics, they will be curious and ask questions.
4) The physical characteristics of adolescent children will change, and some physiological phenomena that children can't accept will gradually appear. If children don't have corresponding knowledge reserves, they will feel scared and at a loss. Therefore, sex education at this stage is the most important. When it comes to sex education, many friends will feel embarrassed, thinking that it is a very adult problem, and some can't say it, so it delays the education of children.
Methods of sex education
1) It will make us feel embarrassed to use the language that children can understand, the problem children, and the people who answer their sensitive questions generously. At first we were ashamed and embarrassed, so we hid when we answered. If a child can't get an accurate answer from his parents, he will seek the Internet by himself. If he sees something bad, he will get deeper and deeper. It is better to answer their questions generously in a language that children can understand, so that children can really understand. For example, the most common question "Where am I from?" We will tell the child directly that he came out of his mother's stomach. When he has further questions, he will combine scientific language, translate them into expressions suitable for children's age and explain them to him clearly.
2) Besides what is forbidden, tell the children what is suitable. If children have some bad habits, we will ban them in a limited way. In addition to prohibited items, it is also necessary to tell children what behaviors can be done, so that children can put them away freely. For example, a child in primary school learns TV pictures and kisses another child. The other child is unhappy and disgusting. In this case, we should tell children that the way to express love between children is to hug or hold hands, not to kiss. Kissing is an expression, which will only be used when the two sides like each other when they grow up. 3) Let children dare to tell the truth. Many times, children are afraid to tell their parents after being sexually assaulted. On the one hand, because he had never been exposed to sex education before, he mistakenly thought it was a bad thing and worried that his parents would scold him. On the other hand, because of the abuser's threat, "if you tell others, I will hurt you!" " In order to make children dare to tell the truth to their parents, we should first give them sex education in time, and then let them believe in their parents, who will always be their protectors. Tell your child in advance that "no matter what happens outside, tell your parents that their parents will help!" " "At the same time, don't use the police to scare children, make them believe in the police, and understand that the police are people who punish bad people.
4) It is easy to use picture books for education. There are many picture books about sex education now. You can show your children some picture books and explain them in detail in an illustrated way to make them easier to understand. Better picture books are Serena's rushing forward, the story of penis, the story of breasts, why I hate wearing underpants, my baby body and so on. I showed Bauer, who is over 2 years old, the story of the rooster twice. He knew which was the secret part and that he came out of his mother's stomach.