The correct way to treat young people's puppy love is to be sparse but not blocked. Adolescent children need love, understanding and acceptance psychologically. If she can't get love at home, she will go out and look for love among her peers, or something like love. At this time, parents should be more tolerant and respectful, and don't be overwhelmed by wind and grass. Parents need to talk to them on an equal footing, observe more and communicate more. Keeping up with the development will help to protect them.

? The correct way to deal with daughter's puppy love;

First, we must first determine whether girls are puppy love. With her own speculation and speculation, it is not easy to determine, which will hurt her daughter's heart. It is best to find a suitable opportunity to communicate with children easily and skillfully, protect their self-esteem and explain the situation to them. If it is determined that the child is not puppy love, it may be that the opposite sex students care more about her. Girls just answer text messages and phone calls out of courtesy, so the problem is not particularly serious, and parents can also open their hearts to communicate with their daughters.

Second, sincere acceptance and understanding make each other feel that puppy love is a natural phenomenon. You can't say that willow sprouts in spring is wrong, it should sprout in spring. Adolescence is the budding time, and it is normal for men and women to have a good relationship. When the child is already in puppy love, don't oppress him, he is in a rebellious period, and the more he oppresses, the more rebellious he becomes.

Third, communicate more and cultivate children's correct outlook on life and values. As parents, when talking to their daughters, especially when it comes to feelings and other issues, we must pay attention to adjusting our mentality and speaking gently. Parents should communicate with her from the perspective of protecting and being kind to their children and try not to scold her; Otherwise, the child will feel embarrassed and ashamed, which will not only aggravate her rebellious psychology, but also have the opposite effect.

Fourth, be the confidant of each other. The most important thing is not to give the right idea first, but to know everything. If you know something well, you won't be so worried. As long as the other person is willing to express to you, things are things.

Fifth, tell your daughter that even if you are in love, you should know how to protect yourself and keep the bottom line of love. Sex education is a very taboo topic in China. When a girl is found in puppy love, her mother should intervene in time, popularize relevant sexual knowledge, guide her to correct sexual knowledge and realize the harm of promiscuity. Otherwise, once this happens, the damage to the girl will be enormous, even affecting her life.

Sixth, help her daughter clear up her ambitions and regain her life goals. Of course, this is a goal other than love. Let ambition be the leader of life.