Parents are the first teachers of the children. When educating children about sexual knowledge, we should introduce sexual knowledge vividly according to their different age groups. In today's world, many countries attach great importance to early sex education for children, and there are books and periodicals devoted to promoting sex education, and publicize relevant sexual knowledge according to children's age.
Children from birth to 2 years old, breastfeeding stage, on the one hand, children experience maternal love; On the one hand, it also lays a good foundation for the development of sexual psychology. At the age of 2~3, children can distinguish between sexes and know whether they are boys or girls. At this time, parents should educate their children to protect their privacy, and boys should not expose their penises; Girls can't expose small breasts and vulva; You can't pee anywhere. In America, no matter how young children are, boys should wear pants. In addition to wearing pants, girls should also wear small bras or swimsuits. Parents should choose their children's names, hairstyles, costumes and toys according to their gender, and never choose according to their own preferences. If someone likes a boy, they dress the girl up as a boy. Like girls, dress up boys as girls or tie a braid. This is not good, it will make children confused about their gender, and it will also lead to sexual psychological obstacles in the future.
Children aged 3~7 years old are an important stage to cultivate gender role awareness. Children will know their gender and role from the daily life of their parents and family members. Children understand sex by observing their parents' emotional communication, intimate relationship, mutual care and how to care for themselves and others. Therefore, a warm, harmonious, United and harmonious family, all intimate behaviors between parents and between parents and children are the best and healthy sex education for children. Children sometimes learn to be mothers, fathers and children in a family way, which is a good way for children to learn about sex.
The emergence of so-called "henpecked" families in society is actually very unfavorable to children's character and sex education. Some children who grow up in a "henpecked" family will hate men and some will be afraid of women; Some parents prefer boys to girls; Once there was a mother who often said in front of her daughter, "Boys are all bad." The above situation will make children tend to reject the opposite sex. Parents are the first teachers of the children. Parents have an important responsibility to educate their children about sex. Parents should treat each other as equals, trust each other, unite and help each other, live in harmony and build a harmonious family. Men and women are the same, but the gender differences are beautiful. Fathers can often praise, appreciate, care and love their daughters, thus enhancing their self-confidence and full of bright hopes for the future; Mothers should be gentle, considerate and concerned about their sons' growth, and always encourage their sons to be bold, brave and resolute, which will cultivate their children's spirit of being quiet, self-disciplined and brave. At the same time, it is also conducive to building a happy family and enjoying a better life in the future.
Mothers generally pay more attention to adolescent education for girls and tell their daughters about menstruation and menstrual hygiene. Make girls have certain psychological preparation for menarche; For the adolescent education of boys, parents always take a neglected attitude and never talk about wet dream, nocturnal emission and male sexual health. Therefore, when a boy appears wet dream or nocturnal emission for the first time, the child will be nervous and afraid because he lacks this knowledge and is unprepared. Children should be told not to be nervous and afraid, which is normal.
Parents and grandparents should also attach importance to sex education for children from single-parent families. Be kind to children, in addition to their own sex education, parents should also cooperate with other relatives (such as grandparents, children's uncles, aunts, uncles, menstruation, etc.). ) Sex education for their children. Never speak ill of his father (or mother) in front of a child because of personal grievances. For sex, children can imitate and learn from their relatives, kindergarten or school teachers, so their relatives, kindergarten or school teachers should set a good example for their children.
With the growth of children's age and the arrival of adolescence, children's curiosity and interest in sexual feelings and sexual truth are increasing day by day, and children are very eager to acquire knowledge about sex and sexual health; I also want to know about sexual moral civilization and the prevention of sexually transmitted diseases. At this time, parents and teachers should understand and respect their children, and have the responsibility to help them get the sexual knowledge they deserve. They can write letters to their children or recommend popular science books on sex education written by professionals. The media should also abandon those disgusting propaganda or advertisements. In order to be responsible for the interests of the country and the nation and keep children away from the influence of pornography, we should do a good job in sex education together.
1in the summer of 1996, the first international conference against child sexual abuse was held in Stockholm, Sweden. The meeting emphasized strengthening law enforcement to protect the physical and mental health of minors. To this end, we should pay attention to strengthening sex education for children. Sexual knowledge can be taught to children anytime and anywhere according to specific conditions, but it is not sexual behavior, and sexual behavior is an instinct. Mainly to teach children about sex science, sexual health care, prevention of sexually transmitted diseases, sexual morality and sexual civilization. For example, when adults and children are walking in the zoo, they can see the sexual behavior of cats, dogs, birds and other animals, or in the programs of animal world and man and nature on TV, which can be used as an excuse to show that animals in nature also have higher standards when choosing a mate (such as good health and liking, etc. In this way, the relevant sexual knowledge is inadvertently passed on to the children.
Because children's sex education is not paid enough attention to at ordinary times, some children don't know when they are sexually assaulted, and some dare not say or report it. Therefore, it is necessary to educate children about sex and teach them how to protect themselves from sexual assault. To this end, we can start from these aspects: first, educate children not to go out alone, and be sure to tell their parents where to go and what to do when going out; Second, you must be accompanied by a companion when you go out; Third, don't get along with adults of the opposite sex alone, don't enter strangers' rooms, and don't accept gifts, food and drinks from strangers. Don't take a stranger's car and don't lead strangers; Fourth, let children know where their bodies are and never touch them. They should learn to avoid them when someone tries to touch them. In the event of an accident, first of all, you should be calm, try to fight with it, go to crowded places and seek people who can help, such as police, soldiers, people with armbands, etc. Dare to expose the bad guys boldly and let them get the punishment they deserve. Keep your child calm and don't feel guilty. It's not your child's fault to prevent long-term negative effects.
In order to educate children about sex, the following tips are introduced for reference. 1, go out in groups, not alone; 2, wear clothes to be generous, not open, not provocative; 3. Get to know your date well and date like-minded people; 4. arrange for the person you are dating to meet your parents; 5. Avoid going to remote and quiet places; 6. Avoid drugs and alcohol; 7. Set boundaries, not four rewards; 8. Don't watch pornographic movies; 9. Be good at saying' no' and accepting' no'; 10, there is a backup plan.
As long as we join hands and the whole society strives to create a clean and civilized social environment for our children, our children will certainly grow up healthily and become the pillars of national construction.