Understanding is the key.
First of all, please be more patient and understanding. Children don't mean to target you, they are just trying to explore their own boundaries. Don't rush to criticize or punish at this time, but try to understand their behavior from their point of view.
Active communication
Communicate with children more and encourage them to express their feelings and thoughts. Ask them why they don't listen. Do you have any troubles or dissatisfaction? Through communication, you can better understand their needs and find better guidance.
Strengthen parent-child relationship
Spend more time with children, play with them, study with them and strengthen their emotional bond. A warm and harmonious family environment helps children grow up better and learn to cooperate.
Appropriate education
When children have bad behavior, they can be properly guided and educated. For example, tell them why certain behaviors are unacceptable and what is a better alternative. However, it should be noted that education is not to blame and punish, but to guide them to realize their mistakes with a gentle tone and attitude.
Encourage and affirm
Don't forget to give your child timely encouragement and affirmation. When they make the right choice or behavior, timely praise and reward will make them more confident and willing to cooperate.