Guo: My family went to a restaurant for dinner that day. He ordered a plate of fish-flavored shredded pork. After he came up, he wouldn't let anyone touch his chopsticks, saying that it was his dish. Even if he can't eat, no one else is allowed to eat.
Xiao Zhang: Then why don't you teach him a lesson? Just too much.
Guo: I was going to hit him, and his grandparents immediately protected him, and the child was spoiled by them.
Parents love their children, which is certainly true. But don't spoil your child to the sky, otherwise it will lead to the bitter fruit of love and harm your child. What parents should do:
1, set an example to educate children to love their parents and everyone. Parents should set an example for their children, such as honoring their parents; Visiting self-taught teachers during the Chinese New Year; Take the initiative to help others when the neighborhood is in trouble; You can respect the old and love the young in public and think of others everywhere. Parents with a broad heart will naturally sow the seeds of love in their children's hearts.
2. Treat children with a normal heart. Parents should share the food and fun at home with their children, so that children can learn to think of their grandparents and mothers first, then their parents, and finally themselves. Let children understand that parents and grandparents are elders and should be respected and valued by children.
4. Involve children in family work. Parents should involve their children in housework, such as washing clothes, mopping the floor and cooking. When they realize their parents' hard work in actual exercise, they will naturally show more concern and consideration for their parents.
5. Teach children love in communication. Let the children take the initiative to help their neighbors and do what they can for them, such as helping to clean the corridor, sending newspapers to neighbors, watching the children, and collecting clothes for neighbors when it rains. In the interaction between children and peers, let children learn humility, care, mutual respect and friendship. At school, educate children to respect teachers and help classmates.