I'm an accompanying mother. After receiving my daughter yesterday, I began to ask her, did you do the math problem? She said she didn't have time to do it, and I was so busy that I was exhausted from doing the research-based study of Historical Records ... She wanted to continue talking about what she wanted to say, and I wanted to talk about the math problems I wanted him to do. In this way, I couldn't listen to what she was saying, and at the same time my mood began to roll and I began to get angry. I told myself not to be angry with the child. She's not feeling well. She is doing well in school, so don't push her. ...

However, knowing and reminding can't control my anger. What I see in my eyes is wrong. Slow down ................................................................................................................................................... It's not enough to waste time and money if you don't go home tomorrow, live on campus and do nothing at home. "She recognized my mood and kept silent. Later, I asked her several times, "You said yourself what you can do when you go home! Say, why don't you talk? " She replied, why did you come back and do nothing? I read English ... "I can't listen to what she says. In short, she can't do it without reviewing her math. In the evening, I hurried to sleep, mainly hoping that she would go to bed early and not study. It was no use talking about urgency, so I had to lie down anxiously. Maybe she will wash and rest soon. But it doesn't seem to work, but I can't sleep when I fall, tossing myself back and forth. Is it my fault or the child's fault to reflect?

? This accompanying mother is really difficult to do! In all fairness, it is useless for children and mothers to be right or wrong, but two hearts have different expectations. What a mother expects is that her child will become an excellent first-class college student, an outstanding person, a wise monarch or minister, an entrepreneur and politician with extraordinary ability ... In fact, what kind of person she can become is inconclusive, because her hopes are endless, the better ... Therefore, if a mother wants to realize her expectations for her child, she must see that her child is learning the code of conduct for seeking knowledge all the time. As long as she sees that her children are reading books and doing all kinds of contact questions every day, and always get the second place in the exam, she may be relieved, but she will never be satisfied, because her mother knows that there are mountains outside the mountain and buildings outside the building. When her children are excellent in class and school, it's nothing. They must become cities, provinces and cities. Will the mother worry about my son's ranking in the world ... This kind of worry and longing is endless ... The child doesn't know what to do and how long it will take for the mother to be satisfied ... so she will be tired ... What is the beauty of life? Just reciting ancient poems, English words, sea tactics ... but I don't like it. I like to talk with my peers about people and things I like, which clothes are the most popular, and I like to have more time to chat with my girlfriends ...! As for the future, that's all in the future. Let's talk about it later ...

? Can we say which is right and which is wrong? "True or false" is too difficult for me, because it is not like a math test paper, and the answers are all corresponding. One plus one equals two, and the whole world will know it. However, desires are different, and different people have different desires. The same person will have different desires at different times. For example, Sima Yi, a great soldier, fell in love with his wife when he entered the official career. It is his greatest wish to have a good family. He would rather crush his leg with a carriage than go. Is this "If there is no road in the world, then hide"? No matter what he thinks, in short, I think his wish at that time was to enjoy a stable and safe family life. But in the end, after Cao Cao's death, Cao Fang acceded to the throne, and he was young and ignorant. Assistant Minister Cao Shuang was foolhardy, greedy, bullying and afraid of hard work, and crime was rampant. His desire was endless with the rise of easy-to-get materials and status, and finally he was beheaded.

However, Sima Yi, who was cautious all his life, made a second "Cao Cao", getting rid of Cao Shuang and holding the emperor in his arms. He became prime minister, and the emperor was young and ignorant. The beauty of Wei was in Sima Jia's hands, but Sima Yi deviated from his original intention. Supposedly, it was easy for his family to live a peaceful and peaceful life at this time, but he slaughtered and destroyed aliens ... which was more "brilliant" for Sima Jia.

I remember a sentence from Sima Yi's most classic education Si Mazhao; "I have been suppressing my desires all my life, and the results have all appeared in you." Si Mazhao's heart is well known. He is a restless man. He will do anything to get what he wants, killing his wife, killing his people and framing his father! ..... But what about Sima Yi? Didn't he go against his original intention? Isn't he also caused by his own desires?