Games are children's nature, but our parents often think that games make children do nothing but play, get their clothes dirty and even fall down and get hurt. Let's take a look at Deng Li's operation. Not only did they stop and wait to play with Xiaohua, but they also encouraged them to have fun. They even play like children themselves, which can be described as hysterical cooperation. Wait, and Xiaohua wants to draw. Sun Li asked them to create on the wall. When Deng Chao stood up, she thought she would be surprised at the children doodling on the wall. Who knows, when Deng was three years old, he actually made a 3D drawing board for his brother and sister to draw on Deng Chao. This fun of painting really makes children unforgettable and allows them to enjoy their parent-child time. Remember that Weibo that Deng Chao sent before? Other people's fathers buy professional ski equipment when their children want to go skiing, but Deng Chao teaches them two pairs of DIY with cardboard? My skateboard shoes? It's really the latest fashion. It seems that talking and laughing not only exerts children's imagination, but also protects their game nature. A family of four began to create in the game.
If Deng Chao is a funny character in a family of four, then Queen Sun Li is the Chief of Staff. When Deng Chao was on the show, he said that Sun Li was in charge at home. Jay Chou told us? Listen to mom? There is scientific basis. Montessori's educational philosophy points out that parents' positions should be consistent, rejecting one red, one white, one good and one bad, and parents' positions should be consistent, so that children will not lose their unique growth space. It is necessary to prevent children from mistakenly thinking that one parent loves themselves more and the other does not. Deng Chao has not always been United with Sun Li before, and Sun Li once teased Deng Chao in Weibo, which is a stumbling block for her to educate her children. Once Xiaohua was naughty, Sun Li told Xiaohua that she couldn't watch TV or play with toys if she didn't eat well. At this moment, Deng Chao, a huge stumbling block, rushed out and said, "Nothing, nothing, children are afraid of you.". ? When children don't have the right judgment, this practice will make both parents lose their authority. Later, Deng Chao said in another activity that Sun Li is in charge at home, which means that both parents have the same view. Even if they argue behind closed doors, they will never destroy the platform in front of their children. The Deng family also reached a consensus, and the mother has the final say. It seems that it's not just education or something. Listen to mom? As long as you are at home, including Deng Chao, you should listen to Sun Li.
On the level of educational psychology, how parents express their educational ideas in front of their children determines what kind of personality their children will have in the future. Montessori, an Italian educator, said that everything we do to a child will bear fruit, affect his life and decide his life. The educational methods of Deng Chao and Sun Li are: one is to protect children's playful nature, and the other is to listen to their mothers from the same angle.