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I lobbied my mother to love me and get full marks. Will the children educated in this way be excellent talents?
Not necessarily! Remember one year's college entrance examination composition topic? A child got a score of 100. It is possible that his parents gave him a mouth print. The next time he got 98 points, another child got 55 points, and the next time he got 60 points and got a kiss with lip prints. This is the child of most families, but it reminds me that this situation is more likely to appear in rural families, because parents know that they have no academic qualifications, and they hope that the next generation will be better than themselves, and they don't want their children to go their own way. They got full marks, and everyone was happy. They got 99 or 98, but they were more or less unhappy. Why didn't they get full marks this time? So careless? Well, according to this situation, I'm really worried about the future of my child. I'm worried that this child will develop an extreme character, which will accompany him all his life.

Full marks can be the goal, but if you don't pass the exam, you will be beaten, so that children will hate learning and regard full marks as more important than anything else. Or some parents will say, my children get full marks in the exam, and it will be fine if your children pass. I sympathize with such parents with low emotional intelligence. Children who fail are not necessarily worse than those who get full marks in other aspects. How serious would it be if they only got full marks and didn't think about it? There is a proverb in education: there is little difference between senior one and senior two, senior three and senior four are polarized, and senior five and senior six are in heaven and earth! It seems that we get a perfect score or more than 90 points in a year or two, which seems really easy. In the fifth and sixth grades, it is really difficult, regardless of junior high school and high school. Full marks in the senior high school entrance examination, Tsinghua Peking University is not allowed to knock on your door overnight? In junior high school, students with good grades in primary school suddenly fell behind. This is the norm. In the process of learning, the process is very important. Why do people study? What they want is the ability to think independently, not for the sake of red marks on paper, which can be the result of testing themselves. And if parents only love children with perfect scores, what's the difference between them and tiger mom and tiger dad! This may hurt the child.

The People's Daily has emphasized more than once that those who get Chinese will get the college entrance examination and readers will get Chinese. Those children who can only get high marks when they put all their time and energy into primary school. In the future study, it will not be worth the loss. I hope parents will pay more attention to their children's feelings.