1, enlightenment

Family is the cradle of children's life, the first place to receive education after birth, that is, the first classroom in life. Parents are the children's first teachers, that is, the first teachers. Therefore, parents' education for their children is undoubtedly early and enlightening.

2. Continuity

After the child is born, he lives in the family for almost two-thirds of the time and is educated by his parents all day long. This kind of education is carried out intentionally or unintentionally, planned and unplanned, consciously or unconsciously.

No matter how and when education is conducted, it is parents who constantly influence their children with their words and deeds. This kind of education is constantly playing a role in children's living habits, moral conduct and manners. Therefore, some educators call parents lifelong teachers.

3. Authority

The authority of family education refers to the power and prestige reflected by parents and elders in their children. Due to the consanguinity, upbringing and affection between parents and children, children have great dependence on their parents and elders in material life and spiritual life, and the consistency of the fundamental interests of family members determines that parents have a greater restrictive effect on their children.

4. Infectious

Family has always been regarded as the most emotional social organization. Emotion is the inner experience of whether people's needs are met, and the important feature of emotion is appeal. The so-called infectivity refers to the attributes of people's emotions such as joy, anger, sadness and joy, which can cause others to have the same or similar emotions.

The blood relationship and emotional connection between parents and children are pure, natural and close, which makes family members feel interconnected and emotional infection more intense.

Step 5 be flexible

Family education is different from school education, which does not necessarily have classrooms, textbooks, systems and fixed time. Family education is the education and cultivation of children, mainly aiming at the special contradictions in the process of individual growth of family members, and aiming at various problems of family members. It is often not limited by time, place, occasion and conditions, and can be carried out flexibly at any time and place.

Step 6 be timely

Family education is the individual education for children by parents and other family members. Generally speaking, family education is more timely than kindergarten and school education.

In kindergartens and schools, teachers often have to face dozens of children at the same time. Usually they can only give general education to children of this age, that is, group education. Due to the limitation of time and energy, it is impossible to take care of each child's characteristics, and it is easy to lose sight of one thing and lose sight of another.

Family education mode:

1. Autocratic family education mode: Parents are very strict with their children, and they have mandatory requirements on their living habits, making friends, activities, learning methods, hobbies, professional choices, and work industries, and they have a strong desire for control.

2. Spoiling family education mode: As long as children have requirements, parents will be obedient, and parents will also create conditions to meet material conditions. Even if the child makes a mistake, he is unwilling to criticize, has no heart to criticize, and dares not criticize.

3. Democratic family education mode: Parents respect their children, attach importance to their personality development, care about their children, and have certain restrictions and constraints.

Encourage children to be independent and support children to have their own ideas. When encountering problems, they will ask for their opinions and solve them through consultation. There are many different types of family education. Relatively speaking, democratic family education is highly respected, but this kind of education requires parents to constantly adjust and learn.