The contradiction between you and your father-in-law, you'd better communicate with your wife directly, and don't have a direct conflict with him, because after all, it's not your father, and you can't say anything. If it's not good, it will affect your relationship. He likes listening to good things, so you tell him good things to make him happy. It's not your dad. Think of him as a colleague or a client. If you have consumption problems, communicate with your wife. How to communicate specifically, is it direct or exploratory guidance?