First of all, comfort the child and tell him that the mother's practice was for his own good at first, so that he could study and live with peace of mind.

Then treat her in the way that her wife usually educates her children in a repressive way, so that she can deeply understand the psychological harm of repressive education to the oppressed, but pay attention to the upper limit and don't hurt the feelings of husband and wife.

Finally, let mother and son communicate face to face, and sum up the advantages and disadvantages of this educational method, whether repressive education is feasible, and what kind of education is beneficial to children's physical and mental development, which will directly affect the rest of their lives.

? Conclusion: Empathy is the fundamental measure to solve people's problems. Bian Xiao saw many contradictions in suppressing family education. The beauty of family affection cannot be stifled because of improper educational methods. I hope I can help your family.