P: it's the abbreviation of "prettygirl" in English, and it's the kind of dress or personality that is a little feminine in les.
H: Even if you don't divide tp, you can't decide whether you are T or P, so it's called "dividing".
This is actually a gender expression.
The concepts of gender identity and gender expression are closely related, but the difference between gender expression and gender identity lies in that gender expression focuses more on the external expression of gender than the internal perception, privacy and invisibility of gender identity.
Only when individuals disclose their gender identity can we judge whether their gender expression is consistent with their gender identity.
According to the United Nations definition of gender expression, "a person's gender expression is not always related to his biological gender, gender identity or sexual orientation." Gender expression is diversified and fluid. Many people's gender expression is consistent with the expectations of society for their gender, but some people are not.
People whose gender expression does not meet social expectations, such as men regarded as "femininity" and women regarded as "masculinity", often suffer physical, sexual and psychological violence and bullying.
How to treat gender identity from the perspective of education
Adults play a vital guiding role in children's sex education.
It is necessary to educate children to establish a clear sense of gender and self-protection, establish self-identity, and objectively understand and treat themselves;
At the same time, we should also educate children to correctly understand their own sexual psychological changes, so that children can have the ability to prevent psychological barriers and maintain sexual mental health, so that children can identify risk factors that are prone to sexual assault and protect themselves from sexual assault? . In other words, on the one hand, adults should let their children know how to respect the gender identity of others, and should not have psychological reactions of fear, exclusion or discrimination against transgender people.
For example, in the face of transgender people, you can say to your children, "TA may look a little different from other boys/girls, but we can't alienate and exclude TA, and TA can also become good friends with us, and people should respect each other"; On the other hand, when their children are transgender, adults should also educate their children to treat their gender identity and gender expression correctly and raise their awareness of preventing sexual assault.
For example, you can say to your child, "You agree in your mind that you should belong to a certain gender. There's nothing wrong with that. Don't feel nervous or inferior because of this. Everyone should also respect their choices.
Refer to the above? Baidu encyclopedia-sexual orientation