It is normal that different people will have different views on this issue. Many elderly people at home may spoil their grandchildren because of their other ideas or problems of inadequate education, but some grandparents are very strict with their grandchildren, which exists.
Elders owe too much to their relatives in life, so they will adopt a doting attitude towards their grandchildren.
This is the case with one of my relatives. Because of my own personal thoughts and lack of foresight, I have suffered too much in my life. Even if you get married and have children later, it is difficult to take care of your children's education because of such pains and troubles. When they are old, they will adopt a doting attitude to make up for what they have owed their children in the face of education with children.
All the adults in the family have gone out to work and are busy, so that the elders can only pay attention to taking care of the children.
Moreover, with the fierce and busy life competition, many adults in the family will go out to work for a long time, and it is difficult to have time to communicate with their elders. For elders, in order to reduce boredom and depression in life, they will spend too much time and money on taking care of their children, which is a common situation in many urban elders' families.
As parents of children, we should educate and require their children to be qualified and remind them of their grandparents' excessive doting.
As parents and guardians of children, we must make relevant requirements and reasonable communication to help children establish a correct outlook on life and learning attitude. Face, in the face of the problem that grandparents may spoil too much, we should also remind and correct them accordingly, communicate with them more, reduce parents' stuffy depression and boredom in life, and better ensure family happiness.