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How does it feel for a grandmother to bring up a child?
This is a question of intergenerational education. Generally speaking, intergenerational education will produce the following unfavorable factors:

Factor one: easy to spoil.

Most grandparents often have the idea that when they were young, they didn't take good care of their children because of poor living and working conditions, but compensated their grandchildren with more love. This kind of thinking often leads to the phenomenon of "intergenerational habits". Grandparents love their grandchildren too much and indulge their children everywhere, which easily leads to their willfulness, strong dependence and low self-care ability. There are also some grandparents who "protect their weaknesses" because they love their children too much, which leads to children's weaknesses not being corrected for a long time.

Factor 2: Old ideas.

Although the times have changed greatly, many grandparents still demand their children with old ideas, teach them too much old experience, and lack the cultivation of pioneering spirit and divergent thinking. There are also some grandparents who unconsciously teach their children a lot of feudal superstitions because of their low culture and old ideas, which invisibly increases the difficulty for children to accept new ideas and knowledge.

Factor 3: Causing emotional estrangement between children and parents.

Parents love and protect their grandchildren's shortcomings, which makes it difficult for children to accept their parents' strict demands and criticisms, and it is easy to form emotional barriers and emotional opposition, and it is difficult to carry out normal and necessary education.

Factor 4: intergenerational education has a great influence on children's personality development.