First, only state officials can set fire to prohibit people from lighting lamps.
The requirements for children are one set, and the requirements for themselves are another set.
For example, I once deeply reflected on one thing. Sometimes I know that I have lost patience with my children, and I will seriously say, "Well, I won't joke with you now. Now please do something at once, or I will be angry. " At this time, I naturally hope that the children will stop making noise and concentrate on what they want to do.
One day, the child didn't want to wear diapers before going to bed. She struggled and said, "I don't want to wear diapers. I will be angry if you wear it again! " "As soon as I heard this sentence, I smiled and thought the child was very innocent and lovely. But I also laughed at her: What happens when you are angry?
In hindsight, I feel that if I take my daughter's request more seriously, maybe she will be more serious in the future. If I didn't laugh at her, but seriously said to her, "Really? Will you be angry? I don't want to make you angry. Can you tell me why you are angry? Why not wear diapers? What can I do for you? " I think she will tell me seriously why you are angry. What can I do?
Therefore, if you want your child to do something, the premise must be that parents must do it first.
Second, change the rules.
Children are particularly clever and observant. If parents stick to a rule, children will not touch that bottom line. If parents change the rules, children will test your bottom line again and again.
Let the children watch TV while eating in a good mood today, and they can't eat while watching TV in a bad mood tomorrow. Then the truth that children understand is that I should observe my words and deeds, not the real truth: for example, I should concentrate on my work, or watching TV and eating will affect my digestion.
If you want your child to be an angel baby with emotional stability, make necessary stable and sustainable rules for him.
I am Yimi, a working mother who grew up with her, and I like learning and exploring. Parenting is more wonderful with you.