1, which affects children's right and wrong. The criteria for children to judge right or wrong are gradually formed in the process of growing up, mostly from adults, especially parents. When parents disagree, children are often at a loss. In the long run, children's views on right and wrong will become blurred.
2. It is not conducive to the cultivation of children's self-control ability. Self-control ability refers to a person's ability to control and dominate his own behavior, which is gradually formed and developed from an early age and needs the help and support of his parents. When a child has a certain behavior, if his parents unanimously affirm or deny it, he will know whether he is right or wrong, learn to continue or stop and correct this behavior in the new environment, and thus develop his self-control ability. However, if his parents don't agree, if the child encounters the same situation again, he won't know what to do, let alone consciously correct his wrong behavior.
3. Reduce the prestige of parents. Inconsistent upbringing will also directly affect the authority of parents. When parents disagree on education, especially when they quarrel or even deny each other in front of children, children will have doubts about their parents, thus reducing their prestige and affecting the effect of education.