In today's family, it is normal for grandparents to help take care of children, but excessive appeasement may make children dependent. Try "cold" education! When the child is unreasonable, treat him calmly and let him calm down. This is not indifference, but teaching him to deal with emotions independently and cultivating his courage to face setbacks. Because the future society needs him to stand on his own feet.

Communicate with children and convince others.

Have you ever lost control of your emotions in the face of children's disobedience after busy work? Doing or scolding will only aggravate the child's rebellion. Try to reason with your child with a peaceful mind. Sincere communication makes him feel your understanding and respect. When he agrees with your point of view, he will be more willing to listen and avoid making the same mistake again. Only in this way can children really grow up.

Let children grow up through experience.

Do you feel helpless in the face of children's rebellious psychology? In fact, sometimes letting go is also an education. Let the child experience it personally and feel the consequences, which can make him understand the truth. For example, only when he tries to close the door can he really understand safety. Let him touch the cooked food and experience the hot taste, and he will understand that the food needs to wait. This kind of education makes children grow up through experience, which is impressive and far more effective than repeated persuasion.