Parents should also encourage their children's "sense of adulthood", especially boys in this period. The stronger the "adult sense", the more it can stimulate children's desire for protection. They will not only protect themselves better, but also provide a sense of security for the people around them. Parents should learn to let their children grow up independently, as long as their behavior is not too extreme.
Dare to let children make decisions and bear the consequences of their decisions. Perhaps some children will do something out of line from time to time because of their youthful vigor, so parents don't have to interfere too much. The purpose of our education is to hope that children will realize the consequences of things themselves. Therefore, parents and friends are advised to let go appropriately and let their children make some decisions for their own affairs.
If the development of things is what children expect, not only will the children's spirit be greatly encouraged, but their self-confidence will also be doubled. However, if things go beyond their expectations or bring some adverse effects, parents should not rush to help their children solve the latter problems, but dare to let their children bear the consequences of the events themselves, which not only protects their self-esteem, but also makes them more deeply aware of their own problems.
Pay attention to emotional guidance and let children handle things more calmly. Of course, it is not excluded that some children will take some extreme measures no matter what they do. In fact, many times, not only because they have strong self-esteem and a strong sense of adulthood, they are more willing to let everyone see their growth and get some affirmation.
At this time, parents and friends should always pay attention to children's emotional changes, do more emotional communication, truly understand children's real thoughts, and gradually help children realize their "adult dreams." Of course, the more important task for parents is to guide their children's emotions and let them learn to solve problems in a more rational and calm way.
Cultivate children's ability to resist repression and win their respect. Strong self-esteem is a good thing for children in grade three, but it also has disadvantages. If self-esteem is too strong, it may be difficult for children to accept setbacks in study or life, which requires parents to consciously cultivate their children's ability to resist depression.
Let children know the meaning of failure and frustration from an early age, so that they will not be depressed one day because of a little thing in life or study, and it is difficult to get out of frustration.
Self-esteem is one of the most important qualities in a person's growth process, and "adult sense" is also the starting point of a child's little achievement, so parents must guide it reasonably.