Just like your present situation, your husband always beats and scolds the children, but it is very painful for you as a mother to watch the children being beaten. I don't know whether I should interfere in this kind of thing, but if I were you, I think I would. Because I am also a woman, I can understand my mother's feelings too well. No mother can watch her child get beaten. But what I need to pay attention to is that I won't intervene in front of the children at first. Next, I'll talk about what I would do if this happened.
First, talk to your husband. I can understand my husband's idea of educating his children well, because sometimes children will go too far in some behaviors, and he doesn't want them to go astray, but I really don't agree with his education method. So when he hits the child for the first time, I will talk to him about the education of the child afterwards. It is ok to educate children, but it is not allowed until it is necessary, which is unfavorable to children's growth.
Second, try not to disagree with your child on this matter. Of course, I will also pay attention to one thing, that is, I will try not to disagree with children in front of them, because parents must have the same attitude, and only in this way can we play an educational role. Of course, this also depends. This premise is that if my husband beats and scolds the child not very seriously, if his behavior is a bit excessive, I will directly blame him.