Since ancient times, China's mother has given us the impression that she is thrifty, gentle and virtuous, caring for her husband and educating her children, and has become a very beautiful and warm cultural banner in our traditional culture. People from generation to generation have felt the warmth from their mothers.
Confucius' mother was knowledgeable and had a private school at home since she was a child. Under the guidance of his mother, Confucius learned a lot and became a great scholar, which still affects the thinking of us and many foreigners.
In order to provide a good environment for children, Meng Mu moved his family out of cemeteries, downtown areas and slaughterhouses. She chose her neighbor to live there, not afraid of trouble. Mencius eventually became a great scholar, so there was an eternal story of "Meng Mu moved three times". Meng Mu's respect lies in his decisive choice of neighbors to give children a good edifying environment and a good growing environment, which shows a mother's courage and extraordinary knowledge.
When the society was in turmoil and the country was in danger, her mother-in-law asked Yue Fei to join the army, serve the motherland and be a good person who benefited the country and the people. In that war-torn era, in order to encourage Yue Fei to drive the enemy more resolutely and bravely, her mother-in-law tattooed the words "loyal to the country" on Yue Fei's back. Yue Fei also practiced this lofty spirit with practical actions. My mother-in-law's profound understanding of justice and patriotism has also inspired generations of China people.
Ouyang Xiu grew up in a poor family. At school age, he can't afford pens, ink, paper and inkstones. His mother did not give up his education because of poverty, but used sand as paper and bamboo as a pen to teach Ouyang Xiu to practice calligraphy. Ouyang Xiu made great achievements in literature and became a generation of writers and thinkers under the influence of his mother's studious spirit.
In modern times, the mothers of many famous people, such as Mao Zedong, Zhu De and Deng Xiaoping, have exerted an important influence on them. When the child is young, the mother is the most important mentor of the child and has a unique and profound influence on the child, which is irreplaceable by others. It can be seen that the mother's position in children's education is quite important.
My father should be unsmiling, serious and correct in our impression, and he is strict father's loving mother.
Father is a man first. In the social division of labor, it is decided that men need to take responsibility and struggle, and men are responsible for conquering the world. Therefore, men are brave, exploratory, strong, enterprising and rational, which are the spiritual qualities that mothers lack.
Zeng Guofan held a high position and was busy with his affairs, but he did not relax his education for his children. Because he had been in Beijing for many years and was in a foreign country, he had to tirelessly teach his children through letters and wrote a widely circulated letter from Zeng Guofan. His sons have all become talents, and his grandchildren have produced poets, educators and other talents. This largely depends on Zeng Guofan's well-educated and studious family style.
Liang Qichao's family is known as "three academicians in one school, all nine are talented". Liang Qichao's nine children are all very talented, three of them are academicians, and the other children are talents and outstanding people from all walks of life.
Liang Qichao was born in a poor family. Because he lived in the late Qing Dynasty and the early Republic of China, the society was dark and turbulent. Liang Qichao's family lived in a foggy environment. Although the environment is sinister and his life is poor, he always teaches his children to be diligent, simple, pragmatic, studious, loyal and patriotic. Under the influence of his words and deeds of running for the country and being diligent and eager to learn, his children have good personalities and superior abilities. Liang Qichao is really a model of an excellent father.
Therefore, it is not groundless to say that a good father is better than 100 good principals.
The lack of mother education will cause children's insecurity and lack of sympathy, as well as personality obstacles, such as inferiority and autism.
The lack of father education will cause children to lack pattern and perseverance, masculinity and rational exploration.
The way of husband and wife is the complementary way of yin and yang, and both are indispensable. Therefore, in the education of children, mothers and fathers are equally important.