Life is a mirror, it is always with us. This mirror can reflect a person's heart and soul. It is what people say and do. Goethe, a German writer, has a vivid metaphor: "Behavior is a mirror in which everyone shows his image."
Indeed, each of us is our own mirror. Others observe, ponder, understand and finally classify us through our words and deeds, so we become good people, bad people, trustworthy people and untrustworthy people in the eyes of others ... Only when others think that you are sincere to him will he be sincere to you. This is the so-called man in the mirror.
I thought to myself, such a mirror will always be in people's hearts. Mr. Ji Xianlin said in his collection of essays "My Heart is a Mirror": "Everyone's heart is a mirror for the passage of time." Heart mirror sees both sunshine avenue and a lonely boat; It can be seen that the mountains are heavy and the waters are numerous. Heart mirror should be wiped with heart, and also need to look back with heart. To understand is that if you want to keep an open mind, you must first cultivate your mind for a long time and let your mind be clean, so that the world will be calm.
Life is a mirror. The son smiled and the son whined. As Buddhists say, things are different and the environment is man-made. In fact, life is what you think. If you are always sad, life will be bleak; If you always have a kind heart, life will be full of sunshine. If you dream of success, success will come to you; But if you always hold bad thoughts, they will follow you. As Plato said, "it is not the environment that determines a person's mood, but the mood." As the saying goes, "there is green in the heart and spring everywhere." As long as you have a kind heart, it will be beautiful within three steps.
Life is a mirror with a confident me in it. To live is to have confidence in life. If you think about what you can't do, you will never finish it; If you believed it would happen from the beginning, you're already halfway there. A philosopher once said, "A man will be himself in his imagination." When writing, the writer's dream is full of joy when the article is published, so that he can write beautiful articles and spread them through the ages; When studying every day, experience the fun of learning optimistically, and the mystery of knowledge will be pleasant.
Life is a mirror, and there is a real me in the mirror. If it is gold, it will always shine. Don't bury in the soil; If you are a lark, you should sing, not take a crow as your brother; If you are a mandarin fish, you should fly, not walk with birds. Even if it is a grass, it should aim high, not afraid of sandstorms, and be green all over the world. However, not all efforts will be rewarded and there will be a beautiful result, but as long as you have a clear conscience, keep going! Because life is a process of continuous excavation, enjoying the process is the true meaning.
Life is a mirror with a happy me in it. I remember a famous person said, "Doing everything and giving it a happy idea is like lighting a lamp." On the journey, people should treat everything with wisdom and optimism, and don't indulge in pessimism and loss. Get the courage to be a man from the lessons of failure; Gain confidence in doing things from successful experience. This self-balanced mentality is enough to support a person to face the world optimistically and intelligently. Only by treating life with an open-minded attitude can we maintain a benign attitude and life be full of happiness and happiness. As Rodin said, life is not a lack of beauty, but a lack of discovery of beauty. Similarly, life is not without happiness, but a lack of perception and experience of happiness.
If your life is always smooth and sunny, then you must smile in front of the mirror and be full of ambition. Your joy will turn into a smile in the mirror; Your satisfaction will turn into complacency in the mirror. At this time, everything in the mirror is beautiful and bright, because you are in the spring breeze of life.
While you are still alive, enjoy the fun of life, don't close yourself, smile at the mirror of life and stick to your own.
Life is a mirror.
For so many years, we have looked at the world with joy or sigh, and sometimes we are helpless: how can people live like this? "One kind of rice breeds a hundred kinds of people" is the same person who came into this world. In the end, everyone leads a different life: some people suffer in life, while others enjoy it in life. Why are people's lives so different? Why do people live such a life? Why is it difficult to transcend reality and live the life you want? This is something that many people have been puzzled for a lifetime but can't help but want to understand.
Answer this question: What do you think life is? Why do people you know lead such a life? Why do people live like this? When we see what kind of life this person is living, we probably know what kind of person he is and what kind of things he will do. Otherwise, he wouldn't have lived like this. If we are thrown to another place, we will live like this in ten years, and will we live like this in twenty or thirty years.
Do you find that life is just a mirror? Open your eyes and you will see an outside world. Close your eyes, we have our own inner true thoughts and feelings. Between the inner life and the outer life, have we found the relationship between them and understood it? It turns out that life is just a mirror, which only presents the quality of our life completely. If we want to know the quality, wisdom and ability of our present life, we can know everything by looking at what kind of life we are living now. We saw this mirror, opened our eyes and saw the outside world. Our external quality of life is a reflection of our inner world. What happened in our life and the results we got are just a mirror, which just shows what kind of person I am.
The child can't live independently yet, so he has to live the life of his parents. Parents should take care of him and educate him. When he grows up, he will live independently, and he will go out into the world and create a life of his own. Some people are better than others in ability and wisdom. They can not only live a successful life, but also benefit the lives of others. For example, we are familiar with politicians, scientists and thinkers who benefit the interests of mankind, such as Washington, Yuan Longping and Confucius. ...
They not only established their own achievements, but also benefited countless contemporaries and even influenced future generations. Here, we also want to mention another benefit, that is, we often hear that "one person gets the Tao, and the chicken and dog ascend to heaven." Only one person can get the word, and the chickens and dogs at home can be exposed, but chickens are still chickens and dogs are still dogs, and this kind of benefit to chickens and dogs generally refers to the kind of villains who are arrogant and even bully the weak and fear the hard once they gain power. Some people can finally transcend life and live freely. In Buddhist classics, there is a saying about "great freedom". Finally, he can get what he wants and live the life he wants. Life is just a mirror, just a complete presentation of our wisdom and ability.
The existence of life is just an equal sign. What kind of people live what kind of life. What kind of people will happen, otherwise this will not happen. People who are right and wrong have right and wrong things; Greedy people will eventually be cheated by others. So don't blame others for being cheated, we are greedy. If we think nothing but help others, we won't be cheated. That is, we still want it, and if we want it, we will take the bait. What kind of people can happen. Everything we do in the future will be the same. We can tell who did it at a glance. As long as we see a person and listen to him, we will know what he does and what he will do. All the results are just a mirror, telling us what kind of person we are; Otherwise, this will not happen. What happened tells us with the result: we are such people, so the result is like this.
In this world, there are many people who have been good at reading since childhood, and they have excellent grades in reading this kind of thing. We find that they all have a serious attitude towards reading, they all have the same concepts and ideas about reading, and they all have the same methods about reading. Finally, we found that as long as people are like this, they can read well. All the people who study well just have different names. In fact, they are all the same kind of people: no matter how the external conditions change, no matter which school they go to, no matter which class they go to, no matter which teacher they teach, their attitude towards learning will never change, and they will not affect themselves because of the changes in conditions.
Let's look at those people with good interpersonal relationships and good popularity. They are easily recognized and supported by others. People with good interpersonal relationships are kind, enthusiastic and enthusiastic, and they are willing to help others whether they know it or not. They all have some ideas and opinions about people. They like to care, help and take care of people. So such people are very popular everywhere and have good interpersonal relationships. We find out those people who have good interpersonal relationships and find that they are all the same and have the same characteristics.
Let's look at successful people from all walks of life, such as outstanding entrepreneurs. They are the same, and they have many characteristics in common. We know that "the best candidates come from all walks of life". We find all these "best candidates" and let them talk about the concept of success and their attitude towards success in life. It turned out to be the same. The secret of this achievement is called "If you are a promising person".
With this answer, let's share this philosophy. Now, please answer a question: Please use a most appropriate adjective to describe and summarize the life we are living now: What are you busy with these days? What kind of life are you living now? What happened to you during this time? What kind of life are you living now?
Someone replied: he is living a painful life now, living in pain; Someone replied that he is now living a boring life like "chicken ribs", and it is a pity to eat tasteless and abandon it; Others say that he is now living a callous life, and life is just an empty shell.
Maybe what we see with our eyes is just the problems in life; Maybe what we see is just what we meet now; Maybe all we see is the achievement of the goal. Everything in life now is actually just a mirror. We must be able to see that this mirror just lets us know what kind of people we are. We seem to be used to seeing people living in poverty, but let's reflect carefully: why are these people poor, because they are also people with sound limbs? Still relying on others for relief? It is impossible to rely on the relief of others. Depend on others for a while, but not for life. Relief only increases the rescuer's own blessing, which is not good for the rescued person. We give people money, and after a while the money runs out, it's still the same. Life is just your own business. Although it can be changed by external forces, when we stand in front of the mirror of life, we only see ourselves. All the good and bad, happiness and pain are created by ourselves.
If we really understand the meaning of life, then the best and only way is to cross people. Only by crossing people can our life be dominated and promoted today, and we can have better ability and wisdom today. Because life is just a mirror, it reflects all the problems in life and our current living conditions. In fact, all this is not a problem of life at all, not a problem of the outside world; Everyone with discerning eyes knows that all this is mainly caused by internal problems, not our own problems. Look at our life and see where there is no problem in our life. For example, if someone has no problem with money today, it means that his ability in money is already sufficient, and he will see that this aspect is no longer a problem. Someone has no problem in his work and career, because he has had enough in his life and achieved this position in his career, so it is not a problem for him to do things. Some people may be emotionally miserable, but some people are emotionally relieved. He is full of feelings and happy inside.
Look at our life now: what is good and what is not? This mirror is what we have to face every day, because life goes on, and in the end we may be helpless. We can't live like this all our lives. One day, we will find that as long as we open our eyes, we will smile and be happy every day. Because in this life, we can live the life we want, and life can be desirable and comfortable. But people must find this mirror. A master who really understands, he will not divide the world into several isolated parts, and he will not separate children, companies and health. If we can't see or don't want to face it, then we will never get rid of it, never get well, and never get through it.
Life is like a mirror, reflecting your inner state. "You laugh at it, and it cries when you cry." . It depends on how you face and behave, don't let yourself down, and don't let life let you down. You should always be grateful. In any case, whether you are happy or sad, you should enrich and refine your life with a serious attitude. This is the perfect life.
Life is a mirror.
Life is a tortuous, complicated and changeable process, with ups and downs, joys and sorrows ... which constitute a colorful life. The long road of life, no one can be smooth sailing everywhere. Most people, including heroes, great men and ordinary people, often have more adversity than prosperity. Everyone has to go through hardships and tribulations, and they will encounter confusion and loss. These pains exist in everyone to varying degrees. The difference is that some people are worried about these things, while others are laughing at them. Middle school is an important stage of life development. There are many sentimental people at this stage, and some of them have seriously affected their study and life. People who love sadness can neither overcome themselves nor the outside world. They pay too much attention to hardships and setbacks, and everything becomes eclipsed and boring.
A senior two student wrote in the letter: I have many dreams, but my real life is far from my ideal vision. I am often worried and soon feel exhausted. Sometimes I treat things negatively, complain about life, and can't get out of my own cage. Worry can't solve the problem. Wu Zixu went through Zhaoguan, and his hair and beard turned white overnight because of his sad face and nervous mood. Is it okay? Another example is Li Yu, the king of national subjugation and "Ci Zong". He only knows how to sing the shame of the Southern Tang Dynasty, the hatred of national subjugation, and the sorrow like "a river flowing eastward" when the moon is in tears. What's the use of spilling heroic spirit in dreams, words, tears and wine? Throughout history, some talented politicians are ambitious when their careers are smooth, and once frustrated, they become soaked or disheartened, losing their early heroism, which is common; Either depressed, died in the demotion; Or completely fall into the abyss of despair and ruin your life. It should be said that this is sad.
Laugh at life, and you can have a wonderful life. The smile here is not a silly smile, nor a fake smile, nor a cold, indifferent and irresponsible smile, but a healthy smile of body and mind, and a free and easy smile that actively faces life. Laughter is the best way to solve life problems, and it is also the basic requirement of being a man and living. Laughter is sticking to yourself in adversity, treating things calmly and facing them sincerely. Because if there is no adversity, there will be no cells in the blood to fight. Laughter is a kind of positive thinking, which allows you to choose your own coordinates and development track according to the situation, strive for opportunities and get rid of the shadow of adversity.
Laughter is a sign of maturity and confidence. Only when we face life with a smile can we have a bright future, give life a spark of hope and move towards a sunny day. The famous writer Fu Qike has a famous saying: "In any case, you should face life with a smile." "Prince of gymnastics" Li Ning once fell off the pommel horse. Although he lost the chance to win the gold medal, of course, he was in a bad mood, but he did not show frustration, but smiled. At that time, some viewers criticized him: it's outrageous to laugh when you fail! If you fail, why not laugh? Do we have to cry on stage?
People often say: "victory or defeat is a common occurrence in military strategists." A person who takes a temporary failure too seriously is prone to collapse. If you can put down the burden in your heart and smile, it is a sign of self-confidence and a gesture of the strong. The great inventor Edison failed the most times in his life. At the age of 67, one night, the experimental building suddenly caught fire. Unfortunately, all the precious materials he had worked so hard to collect for many years were burned to ashes. His wife cried bitterly about it, but Edison smiled and comforted her and said, "It doesn't matter. Although I am 67 years old, I still have time." Sure enough, the next day he devoted himself to the intense research and development work. When the reporter asked him the secret of success, Edison said meaningfully, "It's very simple. No matter what happens, I will never allow myself to feel a little frustrated. "
Life is like a mirror. If you cry, it will cry, and if you laugh, it will laugh. Life is a long process, and we don't have to care too much about the lost scenery. The important thing is to face the reality of life, whether it's spring in which a hundred flowers blossom or winter in Leng Xue, we should all laugh at life.
Life is a short process. We should not be passers-by in a hurry, and we should not be weak people who worry too much in the face of difficulties and hardships. We should design a new blueprint for life with a smile, run to the sun, catch the sunshine and get a happy and valuable life.
Life is a mirror.
Life is like a mirror, it will always look at you. Indeed, when you were suddenly denied by everyone, another person robbed you of your "cheese". At this moment, if you remember how you usually treat your work and everyone, you will find that you have really done a lot of things wrong. If you compare yourself with others, you will feel that you would do the same in their position. That's good. When you feel guilty and treat your work and everyone well, everyone will know you again because of your amazing change. If you are lucky, you can gain prestige in everyone's heart. At this point, you have got the smiling face of life, why didn't you get its recognition some time ago? Because you didn't laugh. Laugh? How to laugh? Do you pull those two tired muscles on your face hard and laugh mechanically? No, what's that? It's your attitude towards it. When you are kind to life and everyone around you-if you are in front of the mirror, you will definitely get a sincere smile in the mirror. And life, life is like a mirror: if you smile at it, it will smile at you; When you smile sweetly at it, it will certainly smile happily at you. In this way, you will be happy, your life will be happy, and even your friends, family, colleagues and classmates will laugh happily with you. Is this not good?
As long as you try to control yourself when you are angry, sweep away your grievances instantly with your generosity and respond with an understanding and tolerant smile, the enemies who glared at you will forget the past right and wrong together because of your frank mind. Perhaps, when you sit down and have a good talk, you will realize that you really did something wrong and sincerely apologize to each other. In this way, you will definitely forget about it. At this time, you must all laugh. Just laugh. You must be happy at this time. Since your enemies are at daggers drawn, how difficult it will be to get together! Invisible, you quietly got a gift from the mirror of life-tolerance.
Life is a mirror.
The recent life is disturbing, and my story has become the talk of women after dinner. People who know me disdain to participate in these things and defend me when they meet me. Know who you are clearly and don't need other people's comments. People live not to show others, but to have a clear conscience. I remember someone saying that a mad dog bit you. Do you still want to bite him? I am indifferent to rumors. I'm not afraid of shadows, I know it very well.
I used to be obsessed with coffee, like the rich and mellow coffee, like the sweetness in bitterness. I don't know when I began to like drinking tea, especially rose tea. I put some stamens in the glass, poured boiling water, and smelled faint flowers in the dense fog, which was quiet and comfortable. Maybe life has changed. I used to be busy with business and needed coffee to refresh myself. Now my work has become leisure, and I am happy to enjoy a cup of elegant flowers in this leisure. For work, I love it from the bottom of my heart, love its clarity and love its leisure. I am glad that I have found such a quiet place in the complicated world, and I prefer to stay in the office and sit in front of the computer and read a long list of numbers and colorful articles after all kinds of disturbing work. This kind of work is undoubtedly a paradise in a noisy city. You can see trees and trees when you open the window, and the Yangtze River is rolling eastward. Occasionally, I hear the harsh sound of the train and feel a slight vibration under my feet. This is the train passing through the backyard and heading for an unknown place, leaving rusty tracks in the air.
When I am alone, I will sneak out and sit by the river and watch the long river, the white clouds floating in the sky and the cargo ships swimming in the water. Or run to the backyard and step on the tracks to count the years that have passed. Duras said that when a person falls into memories, he begins to get old. I remember every day and every night, whether it means that I am close to death. As I am in my twenties, facing the old words, I prefer to believe that it is a kind of maturity, to find myself lost in memory, to taste all kinds of life in memory, and to become knowledgeable and elegant in memory.
Duras also said that we 18 are old. 18 years old is still young, what changes should be experienced to make the heart more mature. 18 years old, gave up his studies and embarked on a stage called society. Facing all kinds of people, I always believe that The Beginning of Life is good in essence, and I give them the most sincere smile, whether familiar or unfamiliar. I believe that only by giving sincerity can we get sincerity. This is not the case in reality, sometimes it hurts. I am not a picky person. When I healed my scar, I forgot the pain. All I can remember is their kindness and the classic adage that eating a mat makes you smart.
I don't want to watch others go to their dream school, but I have already worked hard in society. I have dreams too. I don't want to be the most common grain in the dust. As an adult, I have enough ability to continue studying. I like the process of learning, and I like to swim in the ocean of knowledge in books with ink fragrance. Repeated job transfers and proof of study all show their progress, and those hard days can only be experienced by themselves. I turned around and found that the road I walked was so difficult that I walked.
Stumbling all the way, feelings are the same, because I loved, so I was compassionate, because I knew, so I was tolerant. It was an unintentional mistake to make a vigorous pledge of eternal love. When you love, you really love it. If you don't love, just turn around and walk away beautifully. A little lonely, a little sad, just waiting for the running water of time to wash it away Giving true love also knows how others really feel about themselves and will not deliberately hurt them. I will face a sincerity with a grateful heart, love and pay without regrets. Cherish everyone around you, because looking back 500 times is valuable for passing by in this life.
Su Shi and Fo Yin meditated. Su Shi asked what Fo Yin looked like. Fo Yin replied that he looked like a Buddha, but Su Shi laughed and said that Fo Yin looked like a pile of cow dung. After Su Shi returned to China, he was criticized by Su Xiaomei. What Zen people pay most attention to is seeing the heart and seeing the nature. You have it in your heart. Fo Yin said that Su Shi looks like a Buddha, which shows that he has a Buddha in his heart. Su Shi said that Fo Yin was like cow dung, so you can imagine what Su Shi had in mind. The same is true of life, which is born from the heart and the environment is born from the heart. How do you view life? If you look at it noble, it is noble. If you look low, you are low.
The poet Kitajima said that meanness is the passport of the despicable, and nobility is the epitaph of the noble. A despicable person, with his meanness, can do a lot of immoral things, just like holding a pass. A noble man is noble, but nobility does not bring him substantial benefits. They are depressed when they are alive, and they can get a "noble" evaluation after death. True to cruel sentences, moral decay makes people sad. I always believe in nobility, because my heart is holy. I believe that life is a mirror, and it will treat you as you treat it.
Look at the road we've traveled. It doesn't matter how windy and rainy it is. Rumors will eventually stop with wise men. I believe that if we treat the world with a true, kind and beautiful heart, the world will definitely return to its pure and bright peace and see the rainbow after the storm.