2. Create a harmonious family atmosphere and understand children's idolization behavior. Parents communicate with their children in the spirit of respect and trust, so that children can open their hearts and speak freely. Parents should have a good grasp of psychological orientation and avoid taking a condescending attitude towards the blindness of idolatry shown by their children.
3. Guide children to correctly understand the image of idols. Only by guiding children to analyze their idols, downplaying their mystery and giving them a pertinent evaluation can they be convinced and tell them the correct inner structure of adolescent idols and that success and fame are not accidental. Behind the "overnight fame", their contribution is thousands of times that of ordinary people.
4. Reach an agreement with children and make reasonable arrangements between study and idolization. When a child learns in good faith, parents will allow her to be idolized in good faith, and parents will accompany him to idolize. But the idea conveyed to children is: idolization does not mean giving up school and family, but becoming the shadow of a star! This is morbid personality versus morbid idolization! ! It's disgusting to any star itself. Idolization will make stars your daily motivation and show more advantages of stars to you. This is the star's best fan and your greatest admiration for this star.
5. Actively share the growth process of stars with children. Highlight the efforts of artists, do not give up their efforts, are not afraid of boredom, setbacks, and others' blows and spit, and so on. The purpose is to let children take this star as their role model. Since you are a fan, you should be willing to endure hardships like a star and not afraid of boring study. I am even more afraid of the psychological confusion caused by classmates' crowding out and contradictions.
6. Take this star as the starting point for educating children. Discuss the star's summary with the children. For example, if a child knows the movie or song of a star, then parents and children will discuss, act and sing together. If the child is particularly infatuated, parents can ask the child to write his own comments or film reviews on each star's work. Parents share their opinions and comments, let their children summarize and write articles like film critics.
7. Cultivate children's all-round hobbies and learn and grow together with children.
8. Plan your life with your children; Be a child's student and let the child share what he has learned, gained and felt.