The experience of educating children is very short. Sometimes, it is a good choice to read something by yourself and write out what you have learned in your heart, which can make people more clear-headed and clear-headed. Let's take a look at the experience of educating children.
As a parent who has been a parent for more than 6 years, I will tell you two wrong education methods first:
First, I always feel that children can't live without our parents, not that our parents can't live without their children. I always feel that we can't do anything without children, but often because of this idea, adults will be unhappy because of children, and children will lose the space for independent growth.
Second, I often like to help children solve problems, pack toys, tidy clothes and quilts, and match the clothes to wear the next day. I don't want my children to do housework for fear that they will make things worse without solving the problem. I always feel that children are too young to do it by themselves.
For educating children, we should set an example, including being human, being polite and being kind to the elderly. No matter how poor a family is, it is impossible to have "ambitions" and do not know how to treat others well and respect them. No matter how high the culture is, it is equivalent to no culture.
Our children's first teacher is our parents, and a good family education is very important for their growth. Being a "person" is the ultimate goal, and learning to be a person is the foundation of everyone.
Parents have an obligation to teach their children manners. From the simplest sitting posture, standing posture, walking and talking, we will tell the child what is good behavior and what is bad behavior, and often remind him what to do and what not to do. Shape every small aspect of his words and deeds with love, so that children can gradually understand their social roles and gradually establish good behaviors and moral feelings through bit by bit accumulation.
The last point is to guide education: parents are our nature, but parents can't deliberately force their children's interest and give them appropriate pressure, otherwise it will hinder their healthy and happy growth. We can't let their children live for their parents' expectations and let them develop freely. Our purpose is not to make their children famous, but to hope that their children will be more confident and experience the joy of life in the future because of their own abilities.
Experience of educating children 2. Brief experience of children's education
Being a good child's first teacher is something that every parent has to experience. From the moment the child landed, we were duty-bound to take up the responsibility of raising and educating him. As a mother of two children, I may have more experience in educating children. Here, I want to discuss with you the education of children.
First of all, I want to emphasize that since we are the parents of our children, we should not let our parents help us educate the next generation. Because there is a generation gap between our parents and our children, their educational methods and ideas are out of date in today's era. If we want our children to become talents in the 2 1 century, we need to do it ourselves.
Although there is a generation gap between us and our children, they are still more receptive to our ideas than their grandparents. Nowadays, many parents neglect to go out to educate and train our next generation for various reasons.
I am a "professional" mother myself. Since I had children, I gave up my job and concentrated on taking care of them at home. While raising him, I didn't forget to educate him well and lay a good foundation for him. When he just learned to walk and couldn't talk, I told him that mom cleaned the house very clean, so you shouldn't put toys casually, which would make the originally clean room look dirty and messy.
Although the child can't speak, I believe he can understand what I'm saying and see what I'm doing. Whenever he leaves toys everywhere, I will pick them up behind him and put them back in his toy box. As time went on, he understood that his toys should not be placed on the ground or anywhere else. When he doesn't play, the toys must be put back in the box. From then on, every time he played with toys, he would take one or two out of the box.
If you don't want to play, just put it back in the box. Although this is a small move, it has made my children form the habit of loving cleanliness. And talking to adults. I told him that I must say "you" when talking to someone older than myself. You, me, him, can only be called by people of their own age or younger than themselves.
You must call your grandparents when you see the old man. When you meet people the same age as your parents, you are called uncles and aunts, and when you meet people the same age as your brother, you are called brothers or sisters. This is what a good boy should do. Under my education, my children not only won the praise of neighbors, but also won the praise of school teachers.
My children are more active in their studies. The first thing you should do when you go home is to wash your hands, and then do your homework. No matter how much homework he has, he will finish it carefully before dinner. From grade one to grade four, he didn't form the habit of checking his homework. In the fifth grade, he volunteered to check his homework because he knew it would be bad for him not to check it.
I'm not too worried about my children's study. It is wise to let nature take its course. For example, he didn't do well in the exam and his grades were not satisfactory. I didn't scold him, but I wasn't indifferent. My children will feel my loss and expectation silently, and they will be more considerate that I am saving his face. At this time, he will make up his mind to surprise me in the next exam and give himself an explanation.
In fact, our children are all "prodigies" in the 2 1 century. They may be much better than other children in some aspects, which requires us as parents to observe and discover more. Personally, I don't agree to generalize. For example, I heard an expert say that children should praise more and criticize less. I think every child has his own personality. If we blindly respect the advice of experts and only say yes to children,
To tell the truth, it may help some children, but more children are good or bad. Of course, we can't always find fault with children, so children won't have a good result. The most important thing is that our parents should communicate with their children attentively, get close to them, discover their advantages in time, correct their mistakes in time and help them deal with difficult problems in time.
We can't always put ourselves in the position of parents and ignore children's self-esteem, nor should we always put children's dignity first and forget our responsibilities as parents. For the sake of our children, we should seize the opportunity, constantly change and summarize the ideas of many experts. When it is time to respect children, we must give up our dignity, hit the nail on the head when we wake up, and don't be stingy with more good words and sentences when we encourage them.
When it is time for children to forgive, we must show 100% sincerity to let them know that we were wrong in this matter, and hope that children can forgive our mistakes. Seeing that children don't need any conditions and reasons, they forgive us. At this time, do we feel guilty in our parents' hearts? Why have we been holding on to our children's braids for a long time and refused to let go?
My children and I are sometimes like friends, sometimes like mother and son, and sometimes like lovers. Like a friend, I will be equal to him and share his happiness and troubles with him; Like mother and son, I will teach him the experience of my elders and tell him the wishes of my parents; Like a couple, I will spoil with him, and I will make him feel like a man. I need his protection, his humility and his love. In this way, my children will grow up happily and healthily every day.
The poor quality of learning is the child's own reason. I have emphasized that as long as one student in the class gets 100, it means that the teacher's teaching level is very high and the teacher is not wrong. But we can't say that our children are idiots if they don't get 100%. In fact, many children are due to family factors. He doesn't listen very much in class, and his mind is full of clutter, which may be related to what happened in our family.
We didn't take things to heart, but the children were upset because of our words or a decision of the elders. This not only affects children's learning, but also affects their healthy growth. At this point, parents should be calm. Think about it. Are our children more concerned about their parents and their home? As parents, we shouldn't blame our teachers for anything. Although I am not a people's teacher,
But I want to say a word for our most respected teacher here. Our parents only need to bring one child, and even one child may not be well educated, but the teacher should educate thirty or forty children in the class. These children have their own advantages and disadvantages, so that teachers can understand them one by one. I think even if we are teachers, it is impossible. What's more, the child's basic education is given by us, and his foundation is not good. How can I get the teacher to change him?
Having said that, it's just my personal opinion. In fact, I believe that every parent knows these vulgar truths, but they just don't have time to take care of their own ideas. I hope that as parents, I will pay attention to children from now on, pay attention to their existence, and build a bridge for their future with teachers. Our children are excellent, and our parents are as glorious and great as teachers. For the sake of our next generation, do it when it is time!
The experience of educating children is short. 3 excellent parents' experience in educating their children.
I am the father of xXX in Class X, Grade 5, XX Primary School. After transferring from grade four to Xiangtou Primary School, Xx was awarded the title of "Top Ten Students" every semester. My son did well in school, and he was the monitor. He was very popular with his classmates and praised by his teachers. As a parent, I feel gratified from the bottom of my heart.
Like most parents, I am ordinary, and there will be no earth-shattering feat to infect or educate my children. Although my education method is not the most scientific, I have paid attention to cultivating children since I was a child, guiding and encouraging them correctly, and cultivating them to be human, do things, become useful and grow up. I think this is what family education needs most. Let's talk about my experience in educating children.
First, attach importance to cultivating children's good life and study habits from an early age.
Parents are the first teachers of the children. If children want to have good quality, they must be cultivated from an early age. I noticed this when the children were still in kindergarten. For example, let him take the big fruit to the child and eat the smallest one himself; Take out your favorite toys and play with children. After primary school, I taught him to care and help others, and not to always consider his own interests everywhere. Over time, I found that the child's selfishness gradually decreased.
Good study habits are also developed slowly from childhood. I often reason with my children and encourage them to be positive and study hard. Educate children to finish their homework on time and read more extracurricular knowledge. Habits are formed, and I hardly have to worry about my children's homework. Even in winter and summer vacations, Jin Feng consciously does his homework for a while every day, and then goes out to play.
Second, pay attention to communication with children.
No matter how busy my business is, I will ask my children about their studies. Ask him if he has finished his homework, ask him if his teacher can understand the lecture, and ask him if there is anything he doesn't understand in his homework. Encourage him to ask more questions when he meets something he doesn't understand. Although it is a simple question, let the child know that you care about his study and make him afraid to relax; Let your child know what you expect of him and give him the motivation to make progress.
The child's inner world is very rich. To understand children, we can only change our hearts and win trust with trust. It is necessary to protect children's self-esteem and cultivate self-confidence. Through careful observation, heart-to-heart conversation, careful care and patient help, we can understand the troubles and spiritual needs of children's growth. Talk to your child more quietly, be your child's psychologist, and stimulate your child's desire to make progress.
Besides, I also attach importance to teaching children how to get along with others. Unite with classmates and help each other.
Third, pay attention to the use of incentive mechanism.
I set a target score for my children's study. If I achieve my goal, I will get some spiritual or material rewards. Xx is very interested in reading, and I will give him his favorite books. Appropriate rewards make children more interested in learning.
Fourth, respect children's interests.
Like other children, Xx likes watching TV. I didn't object blindly, but taught him to be temperate. He likes reading. I encourage him, support him and often give him money to buy books. Sometimes, he stays at home and reads books all day. I will encourage him to go out for more activities, combine work and rest, and study scientifically.
There are no parents in the world who don't love their children, and there are no parents who don't want their sons to be dragons and their daughters to be phoenixes! However, educating children to become useful people requires some ideas and methods. I hope parents all over the world can find suitable ways to educate their children!