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When should parents learn to let go properly to help their children grow up better?
Many parents have a certain desire to control their children when educating them at home, hoping that their children can obey their parents' arrangements in everything. In fact, this practice is wrong, because children who listen to their parents' opinions for a long time without independent ideas will make them have no certain judgment ability when dealing with things alone in their later lives, and will also develop a timid character in life. Parents should learn to let their children go on properly in life, because this will bring certain benefits to their mental health development and personality cultivation, and also make their children constantly frustrated in life and improve their viability. In the process of children's growth, parents just accompany them and can't control their lives, so letting go properly will make children grow better. Let's take a closer look.

First, cultivate children's frustration ability. Children will inevitably suffer many setbacks when they grow up. So if parents interfere too much, they may lose their ability to handle things independently. Therefore, parents can choose to give their children some appropriate advice in life, and at the same time, they can guide their children through some methods, let them solve things in some setbacks and learn some life experiences, which can effectively let their children grow up in setbacks and let them face life with an optimistic attitude. If parents come to help children deal with problems, children will not get a certain sense of existence in many things, and they will rely too much on their parents to learn a lot of knowledge and experience in all setbacks.

Second, parents can cultivate their children's character. In daily life, parents can appropriately let their children interact with others and make friends with people with different personalities. This will not only enable children to have good communication skills, but also make their emotional intelligence gradually mature. In the long run, children's self-confidence will become better, and their personality will become lively and cheerful.

In the process of children's growth, parents must give their children appropriate space, so that children can face and solve problems independently, so that children can really grow up.