Listening and understanding: Parents can patiently listen to their children's emotional expressions and understand their disappointment and unhappiness. Let children know that their feelings are respected and recognized, and don't despise or ignore their feelings.
Encourage the expression of emotions: encourage children to express their feelings, and help them express their feelings by asking questions or providing guidance. For example, parents can say, "I can understand that you feel lost because you expect to play with other children, but they may not want to." Can you tell me how you feel? "
Provide support and comfort: Parents can give emotional support and comfort to their children and let them know that parents care about their children's feelings. You can comfort children with warm tone and kind attitude, such as hugging them, stroking their backs or comforting them gently.
Encourage positive solutions: Parents can encourage their children to adopt positive solutions, such as trying to communicate with other children, sharing hobbies and finding other children who are willing to associate with them. At the same time, we should also teach children to respect the wishes of other children and not force others to associate with themselves.
Provide companionship and support: Parents can provide companionship and support to their children when they need it to help them build their self-confidence and social skills. You can organize some family activities, attend social gatherings or invite children to play at home to encourage children to establish good interpersonal relationships with other children.
The most important thing is that parents should treat their children's emotions with understanding and patience, and don't blame and criticize them. Every child has a different emotional and social development process and needs the support and guidance of parents. Through communication and companionship with children, helping them to deal with emotional distress and cultivate positive social skills will help them establish healthy interpersonal relationships and emotional health.