First, the reason. Find a relaxed and happy opportunity for children, communicate with children about not hitting them, tell them the ways they can use, let them know that hitting people is wrong, and take other ways to deal with contradictions. ?

Second, take it away. If the child hits again, take him away, or take him away from the play area and take him to another relatively independent and quiet area. In the process of taking away the children, parents should be gentle, and their attitude must not be angry, and they should not blame, criticize or reprimand the children, let alone spank them.

Third, calm down. After being taken to other areas, give the child time to release emotions, accompany the child and make him cry. In this process, don't give the child reason and criticism, don't interrupt the process of releasing emotions, just wait quietly, caress him from time to time, or help the child wipe tears. ?

Fourth, communication. After the child completely calmed down, he began to communicate with the child, and his attitude was still relatively mild. You can ask the children these questions. "What just happened?" "Why do you want to hit other children?" "Is this right?" "What can I do in this situation?" Because I have talked to my children before about hitting people wrong, children should know that they have done something wrong, and they will also propose other ways to solve the contradiction with their children. If he can't speak, then teach him again. Know that children know their mistakes and know what to do. ?

Fifth, the agreement. Ask the children these questions, "Now we go back to play, will there be any friends?" "Can you apologize to the child?" "What should I do if I hit my child again?" Let the children think and answer these questions by themselves, put forward their suggestions and reach an agreement on reasonable suggestions. Children are more likely to follow their own plans. ?

Sixth, implementation. Take the children back to play and let them apologize. If the adult happens after the child, it will be handled according to the agreement. The change of children's behavior needs a process, and we can't expect to solve the problem at once. Using the above method, after several times of implementation, it will definitely have an effect. Please remember that the attitude of parents is very important in the whole process. Don't show disgust, disappointment and blame to children, be gentle, firm and respectful.