1, changes in environment and roles
The changes faced by freshmen mainly include four aspects:
(1) Changes in living environment. Arrange your own life and enrich the campus culture, giving freshmen a refreshing feeling.
② Changes in interpersonal environment. Freshmen can't decide who to associate with according to their personal likes and dislikes. They should learn to deal with all kinds of people and keep in touch.
③ Changes in learning contents and methods. Freshmen need to arrange their own study and have the ability to take the initiative to seek knowledge.
(4) the change of role status. Entering university means independence, and people around you will look at college students from the perspective of adults, which puts higher demands on their independence of life and sense of social responsibility. Facing the new environment, every college student is faced with a process of re-evaluating himself and others and re-establishing self-concept.
2. Psychological adaptation of freshmen.
(1) Inner conflict between pride and inferiority. When entering the university, some students are no longer excellent in their studies in front of many excellent people, their self-esteem is hit hard, and their understanding and evaluation are shaken.
(2) The contradiction between longing for communication and self-isolation. Some students do not take the initiative to communicate with others. While refusing to show their true selves to outsiders easily, they are eager for others to know themselves and to have "heart-to-heart communication" with themselves.
(3) The contradiction between independence and dependence. Going to college puts forward higher requirements for people's independence. Students who have been carefully taken care of by their parents from primary school to middle school may feel at a loss.
(4) The contradiction between ideal and reality. Many students imagine college life as an ideal paradise, but only after entering the school do they find many shortcomings.
(5) full of thinking and understanding of extreme contradictions. Freshmen, due to their shallow social experience and limited knowledge and ability to analyze problems, are inevitably biased in their understanding and judgment of some complex social phenomena, and even go to extremes in their understanding and emotional response.
3. Help students adapt to the university lifestyle.
(1) Improve self-care ability. Cultivating the self-care ability of freshmen has become the first step for freshmen to adapt to school, and it is also an important step for them to step into society independently and adapt to social life in the future.
(2) Learn to treat yourself and others equally. To overcome misunderstandings and unhappiness in interpersonal communication, we must first establish an attitude of equal communication with others. Even if our point of view is correct, we can't simply ask others to do it according to our own model. We should make our living space more open and promote the communication between classmates in positive communication.
(3) Know and evaluate yourself correctly. College students should learn to truly understand their own strength and objectively look at others and their own advantages and disadvantages; Admit that everyone has their own advantages and disadvantages; Evaluate yourself and others objectively and absorb the advantages of others.
(4) Correct professional thinking and master correct learning methods. The study life of college students is very different from that of primary and secondary schools, with special emphasis on the cultivation of self-study ability and creativity. Freshmen should correct their professional thinking, master the correct learning methods and adapt to university study and life as soon as possible.