Causes of pre-marital depression:
Everyone who is about to get married knows that their relationship will change qualitatively from now on. Love is free, we can meet whenever we want, but we are together every day after marriage. During the period of love, if you are in a bad mood, you can cancel the appointment and do whatever you want. However, after marriage, this is not the case. Even if you are in a bad mood, you should go to work and earn money to support your family. After returning home, I have to cook, buy food, wash dishes and wash clothes, and educate my children. People get married to meet their emotional needs, sexual needs, stable needs and the needs of carrying on the family line. Marriage is a contract. From then on, both of them have to do what they should do, take responsibility and fulfill their obligations, and naturally they have to pay a certain price.
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What should women do if they have pre-marital depression?
1, you can talk to your good friends around you, talk to your parents more, and ask them to help solve related problems.
2, go to see a comedy movie, TV series, funny comics, etc. So that you can relax.
Listen to more music and read more books, so that interests and thoughts will not always revolve around the same thing.
What are the manifestations of pre-marital depression?
1, gain and loss.
For the ventilation of pre-marital depression, the closer the wedding interval, the more confused the mood will be. I am always afraid that the other party will not love me as before, that the marriage will not be successful, or that I will be unhappy after marriage. This is a common symptom.
2. uncontrollable anger.
After suffering from pre-marital depression, it is easy to get angry, especially in front of acquaintances or each other, knowing clearly that you shouldn't be angry, but you just can't get excited. This is the most obvious symptom of pre-marital depression.
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I feel excluded from the blessing.
People always give a lot of instructions when they get married, but after suffering from pre-marital depression, they will not feel happy but depressed when they hear others say congratulations on happiness. This is usually an early performance!
4. Don't want to get married.
Don't want to get married, this is a serious manifestation of pre-marital depression, patients have the motivation to escape marriage, cancel the wedding, or simply break up.
Conclusion: The above is related to how to deal with female pre-marital depression. If a female friend has pre-marital depression, it is suggested that she can discuss it with her fiance or boyfriend in time and solve the problem together. Don't hold back or rush to get married or avoid marriage, which is very unfavorable to her health and the development of lover relationship. If there are symptoms such as pre-marital depression, everyone should have a good attitude to face it.