Keywords: I am in the third grade of Respect Primary School.

This article is suitable for: the third grade of primary school.

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This composition is about the third grade of primary school. The title is: "I read Education Begins with Respect". Everyone is welcome to contribute enthusiastically.

I bought a book the other day. It is said that education in Sun Yunxiao begins with respect.

There is a line on the title page: many people think that they can do whatever they want as long as they love their children, but in fact, the premise of love is respect. Without respect, there will be no real education, and even children will be hurt. Respect for life is the core concept of all education. Only by respecting life can we understand the great potential and complex differences of life and have scientific education.

So striking and appropriate, just like drinking a cup of tea.

For friends who have read some books on children's education, the author Sun Yunxiao is no stranger. For example, good parents, good methods, good children and good habits were all written by him and received rave reviews in the best-selling magazine Modern Parents. His "Summer Camp Competition" especially shocked the whole country and triggered an educational discussion with the participation of all sectors of society.

What is education? How to educate is the best and most appropriate? After reading this book, I believe we will get a lot of inspiration from it.

In the introduction, the author puts forward his basic understanding of education.

He wrote in the article: "If someone asks me, can I say what a good family education is in one sentence? Then, I will answer like this: a good parent-child relationship is a good family education.

People can almost feel this phenomenon: if a child likes his teacher, he may like the teacher's class and everything he asks; If a child hates his teacher, he may hate the teacher's class and everything he says. The relationship between children and their parents or others is basically the same. In fact, adults have similar psychological tendencies, but they are more rational than children. "

Several words caught my attention and prompted me to continue reading. I believe that the author who can say this must have many good methods and suggestions to help us educate our children and realize the shortcomings in our education, so as to systematically understand the significance of education in theory.

The book Educating Children from Respect is divided into seven chapters. Starting from the first chapter "True love is selfless", it warns us of the five principles of giving true love and reminds us that cultivating love with love is a harmonious educational concept.

The second chapter, "A good relationship is better than many educations", tells us six "generation bridges" to establish a good parent-child relationship, and tells us that the essence of family education is actually the personality education of children.

In the third chapter, Finding and Emancipating Children, the author shared with us four feelings of successfully educating children. Sun Yunxiao analyzed his educational dream and how he discovered and liberated children.

In the fourth chapter, "Let children grow up happily through experience", between the lines, we can keenly observe how the author supports children to do what they like and how to cultivate their sense of responsibility.

In chapter five, "The core of education is to cultivate healthy personality", the author guides us to pay more attention to children's mental health while educating from four aspects.

Chapter six, "The charm of parents lies in attracting children to love learning", teaches us to set an example when helping children, and provides three secrets.

In the seventh chapter, "Give children a relaxed environment", the author once again reminds parents with four creative strategies that excellent parents should do. To change ideas and educate children, we must first educate ourselves.

At the back of this book are some Sun Yunxiao's historical education papers, as well as details of his works. As the father of an only child, Sun Yunxiao expounded his educational experience and feelings. Everything that happened between him and his daughter runs through an intriguing example, in which the true meaning of education is revealed.

We often find it difficult to educate children, because children have their own ideology, and they will show various uncooperative performances in our education process, such as willfulness, pride, selfishness, arrogance and so on, which makes our education very difficult.

We pursue children's success, from scores to excellent performance in a certain specialty, from weight to height, which are all the contents of our comparison. If children can't meet the requirements, they will be severely whipped by the idea that iron will not be produced. How can we talk about respect at this time?

Lack of respect will not only make children lose self-confidence, but also bring great harm to their hearts. As an independent individual, our children are not as ignorant as we think. When we control our children with power, we bring troubles to their mental health. We forget that the child is not our soldier, and he doesn't need to blindly obey our orders.

The premise of educating children is to respect them. "Respect" is not only regarded as the core content of modern educational love, but also the basis of progressive educational thought in the contemporary world. There is no denying that our children have many shortcomings. We need to look at our children with tolerant eyes and find their bright spots in these shortcomings.

Respecting children's choices is the greatest, best and most selfless love for children.

Sun Yunxiao said: What is a good family education? The first and key criterion is a good parent-child relationship. Everyone will think that when you have a good relationship with your children, your education may be successful, and when you have a bad relationship with your children, your education will definitely fail.

As the mother of the child, I prefer to be friends with the child, and be a pair of friends who help each other on an equal footing, so as to jointly develop the advantages and correct the shortcomings.

He respects me, not only I am his mother; I respect him, and not just him. He's just my son. We share the joy of growing up in mutual respect.