Qi's mother should be the most typical Chinese parents played in In the Name of the Family. Everything for children should be arranged, and children should choose a good road and major. Explaining is talking back, not talking is dumb, regardless of interests and ideas. They always say everything for your own good, whether the children accept it or not. In the play, Qi's mother pays special attention to her daughter's grades, likes children who study well, and always compares her own children with other people's children. This kind of behavior is a special blow to children's self-confidence; Qi wants to be a journalist. Qi's mother wants her daughter to enter the University of Political Science and Law and impose her own ideas on her children, which leads to the children losing an answer sheet in order to do what they like. Therefore, imposing their own ideas on their children will lead to their rebellion and ruin their children. Moreover, after Qi worked, Qi's mother's behavior of buying a house for her children was good from the starting point, but she did not ask the children's opinions. Excessive love is a kind of stress for children, which may lead to mental illness.
A child is like a blank sheet of paper. Parents like to scribble on it with pens. In the end, they didn't recognize it and blamed the poor quality of the paper. In "In the Name of Family", Tang Can's parents are like this. When the child was young, she wanted to study hard. Her parents want her to be an actress. When she was at school, she should be proud of it. When they grow up, the children have the dream of becoming actors, but their parents feel embarrassed. Such behavior will lead to children's weak will and put the cart before the horse, which will have a great impact on children's life development.
In the play, Li Jianjian's father should be his favorite type of parents. He respects children's choices, can accept children's hobbies, and teaches children to have appropriate limits. Even a single father will give his children the love they need, and will not impose his own ideas on them, which is very conducive to their healthy growth. Chinese parents put too much pressure on their children, so they should learn to respect them and communicate with them like friends.