I still remember that there was a course called "Sansheng Education" during the college entrance examination training, which was life, life and life. At that time, I just listened to the teacher talking about real life events in school. In the process of time accumulation, there have been girls who took poison by double suicide, boys who were stung to death by wasps while climbing mountains, and those who were killed outside the school. It sounds scary, but it really happened. After the training, I felt nothing. I think those things are far away from me. After work, I worked in a chemical company. I haven't seen any employees in the laboratory for some time. When talking to my colleagues, I thought it was resignation. Finally, the news came that I died because of emotional entanglements. How shocking and confusing it is that a living person has disappeared in such a short time. What happened in her life that made her want to commit suicide so much? This has become a mystery.
From then on, I began to think about life. Only by living can we enjoy life, and it is meaningful to refine life by feeling it. A big setback will crush people's life defense line, so light that life can't overflow. In our traditional culture, people think that "the skin of the body is influenced by parents", how can they end themselves easily? With the changes of the times, people inevitably have to bear all kinds of pressures, such as economic, emotional, work, life and so on. , and thus produce a large number of diseases, depression, mental illness and so on. All have evolved, which makes people's active understanding of things enter a closed field of thought, just like a frog falling into a well, struggling desperately in a small circle and finally dying of exhaustion.
In fact, when there is depression and hesitation, the individual should also resolve it and avoid entering the misunderstanding of thinking. I had depression, too. 16 years, I bought a house not only with bank loans, but also with heavy debts. what can I do? The house is just needed. If you don't buy it, you have to pay back the loan, and then you buy the car you just need. Although the money is not much, it is borrowed from the east, and then you get married on 20 17 labor day, and all kinds of places to spend money come at once. At that time, it was really a family mobilization to borrow money. Fortunately, everything went smoothly. From buying a house and a car to getting married, after careful calculation, the debt is more than 220 thousand, can it not put pressure on a person with an ordinary monthly salary? Although most of the money is borrowed from relatives and friends, it is still necessary to pay it back. After getting married, I seriously lived with my daughter-in-law, accumulated my savings and the remaining money for half a year, and finally paid back 50,000 yuan to others at the end of 20 17. Suppressing this situation is the most false, it can't solve any problems at all, and it will also give people sublimation troubles, which is useless.
Almost everyone has more or less pressure. The difference lies in people's views on this thing. I often feel that the gas field is not smooth, and something is pressing me and making me feel depressed. In fact, I should reflect on whether depression can solve the problem. The answer is "no". Since nothing can be changed, cheer up and try to change it. 20 18 a popular saying "struggling youth is the most beautiful". That's true. Struggle can solve many problems. When you are tired, let go and resolve it with action.
The murder of a student with a knife in Mizhi County, Shaanxi Province, makes people hate the suspect. This is a typical dead thinking. If you cling to one thing and can't control your emotions, you will form extreme thoughts. You are not only irresponsible for your own life, but also irresponsible for the lives of innocent children.
Life is precious, life is not easy, and life is colorful. We should be grateful to have life, don't give up life for "freedom", and don't have a moment of disrespect for life.