Pestalozzi once said: "Children will feel happy under the care of their mothers. The seed of love develops in the child's heart. " Affection is the best medicine to touch children's hearts. In the process of educating children, love and understanding are more important than any other skills, theories and scientific methods. Using emotional infection method is a necessary means for every family to educate their children. The harmony of parents is the education of children and the harmonious atmosphere of the family. Will cultivate children's temperament. If parents divorce or both parents often quarrel over a trivial matter, it will bring great mental pain and trauma to children. Emotional cultivation is reflected in all the processes of children's life, study and activities.

(2) Independent exploration method

Self-exploration method refers to a method to let children practice independently, work hard, master various skills and cultivate tenacious will through colorful activities in family education. Parents should let their children do what they can, which is the process of practice and understanding. Therefore, parents should provide opportunities for their children to carry out various activities, such as sports activities, organizing games and working with their children, so as to protect their rights and promote their physical and mental development.

(3) Model Law

Model demonstration method refers to a method that parents use their own good thoughts, good words and good behaviors, including conscious and unconscious, to influence their children vividly for a long time. Children often worship their father or mother. They learn how to do what their father or mother does. Children's imitation is very strong, but this imitation lacks discrimination. As long as they are interested, they imitate. Every behavior and behavior of parents has a demonstration effect on children. This is the power of parents to set an example for their children. If parents are right, children will develop good character and behavior habits if they are affected for a long time. On the other hand, they have developed bad behaviors and habits.