(1) It is a human virtue to sprout children's love for the motherland, which is also a glorious tradition and precious heritage of the Chinese nation and a great driving force for success. We can see the great power of patriotism from China scientists and mathematicians Li Siguang and Hua. For young children, to cultivate their love for the motherland, we should start from the side. Suhaolingji asked his students to love their mother first. He said: If a child doesn't even love his mother, will he still love others, his hometown and his motherland? My own mother is also very easy to understand and do, laying the foundation for patriotic education in the future. "Therefore, parents should educate their children to bring joy to their mothers, fathers, grandfathers and grandmothers, share their sorrows and misfortunes, care about adults' diseases, and let their parents and relatives eat delicious food first. Through sightseeing, visiting and traveling, children can be exposed to the beautiful scenery of the mountains, rivers, oceans and rivers of the motherland, and know the vast territory, rich materials and long-standing culture of the motherland, which can cultivate their love and sprout their love for the motherland. We can also adopt lively formal education activities. Such as festivals, stories, paintings, birthdays, etc. Let the children feel the joy of being children in China and know that their happiness today is the result of the struggle and sacrifice of the older generation of revolutionaries, heroes and scientists.

(2) Make children form the good habit of being polite, and polite behavior is the symbol of socialist spiritual civilization. Civilized and polite behavior habits are formed by long-term practice from childhood. Therefore, from an early age, children are required not to swear, not to swear, to be kind, warm and polite, and not to interrupt others when they are talking; Respect the old and love the young; Visit other people's homes, don't rummage around, have a good meal, and so on.

(3) Cultivate children's good qualities of honesty and telling the truth, and educate children to hand in whatever they find, not to hide their mistakes, and to be brave in correcting them. The most important thing for children to do this is the educational attitude of parents. It is difficult to cultivate children's quality by blindly accusing them of their faults. When parents find their children lying, they should analyze the reasons for lying and solve them in a targeted way. If a child wants to buy a colorful brush painting, his parents refuse, and as a result, the child takes the neighbor's behind his parents' back. Some children do something wrong and lie for fear of being scolded and beaten, while others lie to satisfy their vanity and so on. If parents criticize their children indiscriminately, it will not solve the problem. Parents should be role models for their children. Some children are not sincere to others because of the bad behavior of adults, take other people's things and lie. This subtle influence will make children form deep-rooted bad habits. Parents should not take it lightly and set an example everywhere.

(4) Cultivate children's industrious and thrifty qualities. Children's diligence and frugality are cultivated through labor. Children's work mainly starts from the following aspects: first, self-help work, so as to do their own thing well. Dress yourself, wash your face, brush your teeth, eat, make your bed, toys, etc. Self-help labor can cultivate children's orderly life and ability to live independently, and lay a good foundation for children to participate in housework and social welfare labor. Second, housework can help children care and cherish their families, take the initiative to care for others in adulthood, and maintain good relations with all kinds of people. At the same time, through the ability of working and living, I will create happiness, harmony and family with my own hands when I grow up. Enhance children's participation consciousness and labor concept through housework. Children can wash dishes, chopsticks, clean the living room, pick up vegetables and buy small items nearby. Through labor. It can cultivate children to cherish the fruits of labor and cultivate children's good qualities of loving labor, saving and frugality. Don't waste water, electricity and food, don't compare clothes and toys with others, and girls don't wear makeup or jewelry.

(5) Cultivate children's generous, hospitable and selfless character, and be able to restrain themselves from getting along with others. Now there are more only children, children live alone and eat more. It is very important to cultivate children to be generous and selfless and get along well with others. Ask them to play with their children, share food and toys, abide by the rules of the game, and tidy up toys. Let children get along well with other children through various activities. Cultivate children's life rhythm, get up on time, sleep, eat and learn to play games.

(6) Cultivating children's brave, strong, lively and cheerful personality courage refers to a psychological quality that people are not afraid of danger and difficulties and have courage. This quality is combined with people's self-confidence and the ability to consciously overcome fear, and must be cultivated from an early age. It is necessary to educate children to dare to speak and perform in front of strange groups; Encourage children to participate in sports activities and other various game activities within their power to cultivate their self-confidence; When children hear loud talk or thunder, wind or rain in the dark, don't panic or be afraid. They can overcome all kinds of difficulties, stick to the task, and dare to admit their mistakes and mistakes. In daily life, parents should pay attention to using correct educational methods, often encourage and support their children to participate in various beneficial activities, and don't blame, laugh at, satirize or intimidate their children casually, so as not to form the child's timid psychology. In order to cultivate children's brave quality, parents should teach their children the corresponding knowledge and skills, so that children will have enough self-confidence. Children's timid behavior is mostly due to lack of self-confidence, which is based on necessary knowledge and skills. For example, children will be afraid of lightning and storms, and feel uneasy about the darkness, all of which are caused by the lack of corresponding knowledge and ability. Parents should explain relevant knowledge to them and teach them some corresponding skills and methods, so that children's fear will be alleviated a lot. If children are afraid of difficulties, it is often because they lack confidence in their abilities. If the child is really weak in ability and talent, parents should not only conform to the actual level of the child as much as possible, but also give specific guidance and help. When he has done what he can, he should give him an affirmation at once, no matter how small or insignificant it is. In addition, parents can also use brave images in real life to influence and educate their children, such as facts, stories, movies, plays and other literary works, to help children overcome their fears. Children are naturally active and develop their movements, intelligence, morality and character in action. However, uncontrolled exercise and excessive exercise affect their good development of organizational discipline and attention. Therefore, parents should correctly guide and cultivate their children's self-control in various activities, so that they can become lively, cheerful and good at controlling their own personality.